lovingnewtoys wrote:
mysteron wrote:
VioletWolf wrote:
I'm feeling this too! Some days I think I am god's gift to humanity, others I feel like I should crawl back under my bridge and lurk in the shadows out of the way. In fact, I seem to sway between the two throughout the day. I work in retail and I often serve women who I think are bigger than me, but are buying clothes my size or smaller, and that really messes with my head.
So, I take photos. I might do my hair and makeup, put on something nice, or just pose naked and snap away. And while I never take a 'true' photo (a photo of what I really look like, without angles and filters), it does remind me that the potential is there. And the feeling I get when I take a good pic, and I look at myself and think wow, I try to remember that feeling.I think some of you ladies should go on the cat walk wearing dresses with us gents as the audience and we'll have our boards ready with 10s on.
There is nothing wrong with your bodies its all in your mind .
You really are a sweetheart and a true gent - your lady is also very lucky.
Unfortunately the mind is very strong and when you are 'a certain age' and hormones join in the game it has a will of its own.
My husband is always telling me how sexy I am, he loves my legs and my bum especially, but he can tell me that some days till he is blue in the face and its not going to help. Other days I can look at my pictures and think, hey, not at all bad for a 47 year old lady whose body seems to be giving up bit by bit. Then I look at other peoples pics and think, who am I trying to kid? One vicsious circle.
Like I said, I never know how I am going to feel from one day to the next.
Xxxx
Just beleive your hubby. Because what he sees and says is right ![](upload://h7LJ67OOrR57VDYrj5ZEwwHAfLG.gif)