Dad bod, which is apparently the new sexy!! 
Got a bit of a gut but due to my job fairly muscular top body, arms and legs, if I could get rid of the gut Iād be pleased with my shape but as the years piles on its getting harder to shift it!!
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Generally itās about the IQ levels for me, if you can barely hold a cogent conversation then I wonāt be attracted to you regardless of how you look.
Although, itās also important to take care of yourself, so to be honest as long as you take a bit of care in your appearance, and have brain that works then weāre good.
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Mines lumpy and bumpy and fatty bits 
but hubby loveās my fatty bits (love handles) heāll grab then hard when weāre having sex. Heās always said how I look never ever bothers him, heāll grad them and say to me āmine, all mineā heāll do it wherever we are, heās always said I like to grab hold of something 
Hubbyās medium build with muscle arms not to much but enough, and his thighs 
heās said to me a few times would like him to have a lot of muscle and 6 pack, but I wouldnāt. I love his body how it is and thatās who I fell in love with, not a muscle body
I like toned arms and legs, but like a little bit of a belly on men and women.
I had an ex who was ripped and very fit, which looked nice, but wasnāt the best to cwtch up to, and he spent so much time working on his body (talking 3 or 4 hours an evening) which we could have spent better together 
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Likewise, I find intelligence so damn sexy.
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For me Iāve had from 1 end of the scale to the other Iāve been with a size 8 personal trainer and my current oh is a size 24 and this is not a dig at smaller women but hands down I think bigger women have a kinder heart again no disrespect to smaller women
Iāve always been attracted to taller lanky guys with goofy personalities (like Shaggy from Scooby Doo), but my current partner is below average height for a guy with more of a witty personality and standard build (think Chandler from Friends) 
Donāt think body type really does it for me more than personality, since the guys Iāve been attracted to have run the gamut in terms of looks I like that my partner has a bit of a belly and moobs as I like being able to grab and squeeze them, but both are sources of insecurity for him so Iāve had to keep my hands off them and heās currently working to get rid of them 
Iām a very petite person at 4ā11", with a small body (never been larger than a small 
- currently 32"-25"-36") (my partner is 5ā7" and a size small ), so Iām happy that boobs are less important than ass for my partner as Iāve never had boobs but have always had a nice booty 
My partner is a leg guy, so donāt know what about my short tiny legs does it for him but I wonāt question it Iām hoping my partner doesnāt make it all the way to a 6-pack, as thatās not going to be as comfortable to cuddle into but oh well He joked that people will call us ā12-packā (as I have a 6-pack starting to come in) As long as heās happier with how he looks I wonāt comment 
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Iāve always craved to have a 6 pack but the missus prefers more of a dad bod. Iāve finally been able to be comfortable in my skin and as such can upload pictures on here.
My wife is a size 16. Weāve been together for so long so bodies have changed but the love is always there. Iām not really fussed with her body type as I just see her if you know what I mean.
Sheās always struggled to be comfortable in herself but I try to tell her everyday how beautiful she is.
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Honestly hoping my partner stops at where your body is at, as I think you look great and I think at that point is right before it goes from nicely firm to cuddle into vs cuddling into a rock I totally get what you mean, and Iāve told him as much, that he can be bigger or smaller and I wonāt care/be fussed because itās HIM My abs were a bit of a surprise as Iām not working out as much as I have in the past (to my detriment), but Iāll take it as Iām in a better mental state then I was then
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100% you mental health comes first but a bonus with the abs lol. I think itās a tough subject for people to be comfortable in their own skin as you see the āperfectā body everywhere these days.
Exactly, if you are in a relationship and their body type changes it simply doesnāt matter. Itās the person.
Your partner sound amazing if you compare him to chandler
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Exactly, just want to be on the journey together and let him know that I support him with whatever he decides to do Honestly he reminds me so much of him sometimes Iām kind of a mix between Joey and Monica (if that could even ever be a thing) So I guess he gets the best friend and girlfriend
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