Hi just asking do you ladies or gents like be caged by your O/H because i have one but my O/H not interested is there anything I can do to make O/H interested or do I need try something help it I do like knowing she got control
Without you having to trawl through the number of threads / posts, you really can’t make your partner do anything they don’t want to do.
Best you can do is sit down somewhere neutral and have an open conversation about it. Tell them why you want to wear the cage, then listen to any feedback on their views. Some will be things like “it looks like it hurts”, or “will it damage you” etc which can easily be answered, others like “its not my thing” or “I don’t want to engage in that kind of play” are much harder as they are pretty much a firm no.
If a firm no, you have to accept it. You could seek compromise by asking about self locking and unlocking when they want play time etc
If your partner isn’t onboard though, its pretty difficult to do
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Thanks everyone