I am seeing a guy and its fairly new, nearly three months,the sex is great and we both have pretty much the same tastes.
The other day he said he would buy me a whip for christmas lol, but when i asked him what i could get him he said he didn't know. I have handcuffs and he does like being cuffed to the bed, he has also mentioned getting bondage stuff. He loves my bjs and likes to try new positions and things, but i'm drawing a blank over a present for him.
I have had a very tame sex life till i met him and although we talk about sex he just says he doesnt know what he wants me to get him, just something from a sex shop that we can use together.
So my question is does anyone have any ideas as to what i could get him for christmas that we might both enjoy.
There is such a range of things you can get him as a present for christmas. LH has a lot of variety.
You could buy some very sexy lingerie and treat him for the night with that- perhaps buy some fetishwear and do some S&M type stuff, with paddles and whips?
There are also a range of couple toys you can get. Have a look around the forums (many threads on this issue) and the site if any take your fancy. It could give you ideas in what you want.
We could help you out further if you need help deciding on a specific area as there's so many things you can do or buy.
like the others have said how far you want to go ,,,al depends on your experiance / his experiance what you want to try,,you /him into bonadge bdsm ,or are you looking for a toy for yourself while he watches
Let me see experience of other toys, well i didnt even own a vibrator till a few weeks ago, and im fairly sure toys are a new thing for him to.
Budget doesnt have to be really cheap but also not too expensive if you see what i mean.
Preferences well we are open to trying just about anything.
I dont know about flavoured lube for bj cus well i kind of like it natural and he says i give him the best bjs hes ever had and dont change a thing lol
Just find out what you both like and don't like and with the budget prices you won't be losing out.
I'd recommend some of LH's beautiful lingerie and/or costumes. Also, massage candles for a relaxing night in like this one that's on sale right now http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=19016
You could always dress up for him or get him some sexy undies? Or if you ant to got for a fun christmas outfit I think they will be on here soon (the sale is a clearout to make space for christmas stock!)
My vote would be for the vibro cock rings. They work wonders for me & my OH. Big smiles all round!
Have a look for one that give a nice bit of clit stim, it certainly turns me on massively when she is all squirming around on the vibe. Perhaps something like this one: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13223