Hey, sorry made a mistake by accidently posting the last thread before writing in it lol.
I meant to say, Hey, I'm Bex and my partner is Dan. I was just wondering if anyone had any ideas or tips on techniques and equipment etc for male bondage. My partner is starting to get excited by the idea of me taking control and using things such as handcuffs and gags. We are quite a wild couple sexually so this doesn't suprise me, but I'm having trouble getting inspiration and ideas for this. Fingers crossed Love Honey will send me some equipment to try but until then can someone please help?
I actually tried bondage for the first time a few days ago and loved it! We started off with just some rope and a blindfold while my boyfriend did naughty things to me, it was amazing! Handcuffs would probably do the job better, but the rope was a freebie from LH so I cant really complain! Obviously, compared to some of the bondage gear available this was pretty tame, although you can always work your way up.
If you're looking for inspiration, just browse the bondage section, I think there are 41 pages of stuff if you click the new section (which shows everything LH sell for bondage). See if there's anything that takes your fancy!
Get a blindfold and some velcro cuffs. If you havent got any places to restrain him to then you could put chain or rope round the feet of the bed.
Once you've got him restrained then start stroking him with different materials - satin, rope, rubber, sandpaper, feathers etc. Moving the bed into the middle of the rooms a good one because you can walk round it without giving anything away.
Have fun!
PS: If you do get rope - learn a basic rope tie - its easy enough to get it wrong and tie too tight (which is where the velcro is useful). (http://www.bedroombondage.com/bondageu/drbondage/basictechniques.html - the first two are very easy to do and very secure).
Following from a mention of KinkyWolf's; if you are going to go for velcro cuffs (and although I assumed prior to their purchase that they wouldn't nearly as sexy as buckles, I'm glad to have been proved wrong!), I usually recommend the Tracey Cox Beginners Bondage Kit.
It's a very reasonable price, super quality (don't be put off by the 'faux fur' - another thing I usually hate but was wrong about!) and a good place to start your bondage adventures (TC has put some useful hints and tips in with the package).
The bondage tape is very good and fairly cheap as well. Tied Mr HP up with it very successfully. He was dead against the blindfold idea though, so I had to drop that. And a few whips are fun whether your tied up or not!
The bondage tape is very good and fairly cheap as well. Tied Mr HP up with it very successfully. He was dead against the blindfold idea though, so I had to drop that. And a few whips are fun whether your tied up or not!
Aah, I really liked the look of that. Especially after watching the LoveHoney bondage tape video thing (with Bonny mummifying the Prof - hysterical!)! Heard quite a few mentions of 'making outfits' out of it - have you tested that out at all? I'd be rather paranoid of it all unravelling like some hideous knitted jumper/ condom hybrid. Although in this mental nightmare, I am in public...
It feels lovely and you don't get painful friction burns (which I suppose might be a negative for some!). The ropes very versatile, you can use it to make all manner of restraints: one partner can be tied to the bed, door frame, chair...even the other partner in a make-shift sling!
My OH loves to be restrained, spreadeagled (ankle cuffs with spreader bar) stood up and wrist restraints attached to the door frame so she's in the star position and blindfolded. I can then touch and kiss her all over, and flog her initially with a light flogger so her skin tingles all over plus it's light enough to flog her pussy and nipples before I nipple clamp her. Then I can move onto the heavier flogger which gives a good thud but feels nice. A nice crop like the vibrawhip which seems popular with the good folks on here for a good stinging ass whipping and that girl of mine is begging to be released to fuck my brains out!
So you need. ankle/wrist cuffs 2 pairs of,1 spreader bar, a blindfold, 1 light rubber flogger and 1 heavy rubber flogger and 1 vibrawhip plus 1 set of nipple clamps, 1 door restraint and you're away!
Oh and lots of flogging practice before you even go there!
Never tried bondage tape, had no idea it was reusable, might give it a go!
Has anyone used nipple suckers? What are they like? I've got some nipple clamps but I never use them anymore (bad experience with ex bf) as I find it hard to trust anyone but myself with them. Are nipple suckers a gentler alternative?
Also would like to get an alternative to handcuffs - they're ok for me but last time I handcuffed my fella to the bed he broke them........
Haven't used nipple suckers myself but guess they are a very different feeling to clamps - as the suckers draw more blood to the nipple making it more sensitive. Best bet is to take alook at the reviews and keep asking on here!
Haven't used nipple suckers myself but guess they are a very different feeling to clamps - as the suckers draw more blood to the nipple making it more sensitive. Best bet is to take alook at the reviews and keep asking on here!
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Thanks m&s, think I might give something like that a go x
Haven't used nipple suckers myself but guess they are a very different feeling to clamps - as the suckers draw more blood to the nipple making it more sensitive. Best bet is to take alook at the reviews and keep asking on here!
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Thanks m&s, think I might give something like that a go x
We are looking to get that one - Tracey Cox is always a good name to trust too!