Hi all,
Me and my OH have had a few toys for years but don't often use them, she has to be in the right mood. But one killer is the temperature, we have Fun Factory silicon vibrators and I tend to warm them up under the tap which helps, but the lube is always cold, we have a bottle which can't really be warmed. I get her pretty wet and horny before we start with the toy but she always needs a little lube and it makes her jump out of her skin, she is ok once eventually but I want a less shock factor moment for her.
Am I missing the obvious here ?