how do you feel about girls who are bigger than average? personally, im a big girl, and that has it advantages (cough boobs cough) but sometimes i cant help but feel im unattractive because of my weight. id like to know if anyone finds larger women attractive, and if im honest, why
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I'm totally with you. It can really get me down, particularly when people make nasty comments. I feel like big women are fetishised as 'bbw' rather than just an attractive person. That being said, I like bigger women.x
I find girls with curves more attractive than girls who are stick thin
I agree horny 24/7
I find it's not about the size of the woman's body, but the size of the woman inside the body, if that makes any sense. Confident women of any size are amazing. Mistress Wife is 5ft, apple shaped and size 18 (how do I know her size, because I hand wash her lingerie) and I worship every single inch of her, because she is so confident in herself as a person, rather than an object.
BTW, if she reads this I'm surely going to get spanked for describing her as apple shaped..she prefers "curvy", but she won't get all hung up about it.
Every woman has something sexy and attractive about themselves, they just need to find the person who appreciates that.
Skinny women are fetishised as well as being porn style naughty teens, virginal, etc etc. Or recieve totally inappropriate comments like 'oh it'd be like fucking a child, gross'.
I personally don't think a persons weight has anything to do with their attractiveness, honestly. I like and have been with men and women of all sizes. In my experience weight plays more of a part in how we see ourselves than how others see us (except, of course, when you find people who have a fetish for the extremes or people who are just assholes/socially conditioned to go for a certain type of woman regardless of their actual preferences). In other words, you're more likely to find yourself unattractive because of your weight than have someone else find you unattractive because of your weight. It's surprising how many people don't mind what weight their potential partner is. Or how many people, when asked why they don't find someone attractive, will answer with dozens of other answers other than 'their weight'.
I don't see the point in judging anyone solely on their size, be they large, thin or average weight. Nor do I see the point in comparing curvy and thin women, especially when it descends to shaming one to big up the other. Attractiveness is far more than simply the number on the scales.
body confidence is a really though thing because there are "thin" women on this forum who will tell you they struggle just as much as a curier girl.
Personally Ihink you can find something sexy about most people if it is their eyes, a great ass, legs, a smile... but it all comes down to attitude.
Look we all have days where we dont feel sexy, but that is what I love about Lovehoney... lingerie styles for just about everyone. Those damn flirty boyshorts make me sexy just slipping them on. Or maybe for you it is a sexy scent or a hair style that makes your "best self" come out.
Cheers!
Horny 24/7 wrote:
I find girls with curves more attractive than girls who are stick thin
Same with me . I have been engaged to a thinner girl but didn't work out but ended up very happily married to a curvier girl. So there you are no contest for me.
Honestly? I would give ANYTHING in the world to be slim or petite. I used to be morbidly obese and I dropped a cartload of weight and somehow I have managed to become very active, even athletic (my resting heart rate of 42-46bpm can "prove" my ability to easily recover even from the most strenuous of excercises), but I am still big and particularly my thighs simply wouldn't slim down - and seeing I have a massive bone structure, it is obvious that I will always look just awful... Everyone in this country always wants a slim woman with long legs (and every bigger girl is considered ugly, lazy and stupid - how unfair!) and I have been trying to get reconciled with the fact I am going to stay single forever. Seriously, everything about being "big" is dreadful.
I'm not really a breast man myself, but I really love an ample bottom in a pair a mesh or lacy knickers. I love the feel of soft warm skin and would take a larger woman any day of the week
Briona87 wrote:
Honestly? I would give ANYTHING in the world to be slim or petite. I used to be morbidly obese and I dropped a cartload of weight and somehow I have managed to become very active, even athletic (my resting heart rate of 42-46bpm can "prove" my ability to easily recover even from the most strenuous of excercises), but I am still big and particularly my thighs simply wouldn't slim down - and seeing I have a massive bone structure, it is obvious that I will always look just awful... Everyone in this country always wants a slim woman with long legs (and every bigger girl is considered ugly, lazy and stupid - how unfair!) and I have been trying to get reconciled with the fact I am going to stay single forever. Seriously, everything about being "big" is dreadful.
One of my best friends is over six foot tall. She is probably a size 24/26. She can climb PenyGhent probably twice a day without getting overly sweaty. If I wasn't happily married to Mistress Wife, I'd probably be dropping rose petals in her path and begging her to be my goddess. The only size that maters is the size of your heart ( poetically, not medically)
I love big girls so much I married one! She's so gorgeous she brings a tear to the eye - all 3 of them.
My missus is a curvier girl and she wants to lose weight as she is very self concious. I personally love curvy girls, but it's such a shame that society dictates how a person should look to be deemed attractive, I try to make her feel as comfortable in her skin as I can but almost 3 years down the line it is still a struggle sometimes.
Society has so much to do with it! I'm big, I'm trying hard to like my shape.I've dumped 3 stone in 6mths lately but I'm still finding fault! It's a woman thing don't you think!
We are all gorgeous in our own right, we are what we are, love us or hate us is my motto! lol
It seems that ladies who consider themselves curvy are worried that blokes are only interested in slim women, just as men worry about about women only being interested in men with huge cocks! I can honestly say that the size/shape of a woman means nothing to me.
NO! it's what society tells us and brain washes us to what should be the norm! That dictates slim and super skinny. We only have to glance a magazine to see that shit!
We come in delightful packages, allsorts! But I don't think we will ever be content with our everything!
Couldn't agree more. Everyone is beautiful in their own way, and screw what anyone else thinks :)
It's the person, not the shape. Not sure why mags and adverts seem to use skinny women all the time, it's not a good look and not sexy. Most of them look like they would snap if you got on top of them!
Curves are good!
I'm not skinny or curvy, just plain fat. I carry my weight worst on my face and stomach, to the point i dont have a neck just a double chin, and rolls. My breasts are small and uneven, i definitely don't put weight on there, and i don't have a big butt either. I'm the worst shape possible, i wont even video chat with my online friends i feel tht hideous.
Briona87 wrote:
Honestly? I would give ANYTHING in the world to be slim or petite. I used to be morbidly obese and I dropped a cartload of weight and somehow I have managed to become very active, even athletic (my resting heart rate of 42-46bpm can "prove" my ability to easily recover even from the most strenuous of excercises), but I am still big and particularly my thighs simply wouldn't slim down - and seeing I have a massive bone structure, it is obvious that I will always look just awful... Everyone in this country always wants a slim woman with long legs (and every bigger girl is considered ugly, lazy and stupid - how unfair!) and I have been trying to get reconciled with the fact I am going to stay single forever. Seriously, everything about being "big" is dreadful.
Briona you have achieved so much, your fit and healthy, and I wish for all the world you were happy. If I was a bloke (or even a woman who likes women) I would be chasing you, you have such a kind heart and I wish I could prove to you that beauty is on the inside.
Honestly I really and truly believe that to be beautiful you just need to be happy with yourself.🙂