Hey @dontcumonthefloorplease 
I’m a gender questioning, neurodivergent person with various hidden disabilities. Great post. I totally agree that more could be done for both disabled toy users and the LGBTQ+ community. I have loads of toys from LH and do enjoy them but I do feel like they aren’t really designed with people like me in mind.
I have a vulva so buy mainly toys aimed at women but I also enjoy anal toys and nipple toys. I’m not really in to vaginal penetration and don’t usually like direct stimulation of the clitoris because I’m too sensitive although it really depends on the toy and my mood. I’d love to see more variety of toys for external use, broad surfaces for grinding, different textures - soft and squishy and bumpy things are my preference, and i’d also love to invent some sort of grinding toy that has moving parts like rotating and moving beads under the surface for a bit of extra massage! I think that might just be a “me” thing and not particularly marketable to the majority. What kind of toys do you like playing with and what would you like to see more of?
There was a thread about disability friendly purchases but it hasn’t been used in a while. Might be worth a look.
Also, if you have any suggestions that you would like LH to look into, try posting in the Pander to me thread or the Great big suggestions thread. The LH team check these and suggestions are passed on regularly.