Disturbed

Has anyone here ever happened across someone on of the naughtier sites they visit and felt convinced they're related to them?

I just spotted a dude who's partial face pic looks exactly like my Dad, beard, crinkles and all!!! I'll die twice then kill myself if it is him. Gah, I need to bleach my eyeballs and brain. He even has my maiden name! F***ing ugh. If it is him he's a dorty bugger and I'm disowning him, lol.

Lol! My family are too judgemental to explore sex lol

Let he without sin...

Unless eBay turns in to a sex site chances of catching anyone i'm related to on a naughtier site isn't going to happen any time soon

Sum Sub wrote:

Let he without sin...

I know, and I agree. He's a grown man and can do what he likes but the idea of him having this. . . persona that my mother knows nothing about (which I can guarantee you she doesn't if it is him), it makes me feel a little odd. I'll drop dead if I get a request to follow him ![](upload://kym5tZ5EfyJxs6TKHB1Q2HtGSpK.gif)

I get really weary of what I write on Fb as I have family on that, same with Twitter, I'm lucky as my family don't talk to me much & are utter prudes, I couldn't imagine them on such sites, I'd die if I ever found out though! They don't know what they're missing ^_^

Guess it runs in the family. ![](upload://ez5kOkpKXRZOxjavAURYmQxVTau.gif)

Seeing my family on them sort of sites wouldn't surprise me at all. But that would then mean I would also have to join the sites.

I'm quite convinced that my family memebrs would never venture on such sites.

I am wary of what I might put on my FB as I have family there so keep that clean.

My ex and I did wonder if we'd bump into her mum and step dad at a swingers club we used to go to though! We never did thank God!

It can't be one rule for you and a different rule for your dad, grown ups are allowed a sex life too. And even if it is something majorly kinky, he's a lot older than you, you never know what kinks you could evolve into in the future.

I know it's gross thinking of your parents in that way, but parents are allowed a sex life too!

The problem with that though is that this is an emotional response and so not as open to reason.

Anyway, it's not always bad. Finding my father's (and later older brothers') porno stash was like Christmas having sex with another Christmas. Good times.

MrsMcX wrote:

It can't be one rule for you and a different rule for your dad, grown ups are allowed a sex life too. And even if it is something majorly kinky, he's a lot older than you, you never know what kinks you could evolve into in the future.

I know it's gross thinking of your parents in that way, but parents are allowed a sex life too!

I totally agree with you. Being 34 and a parent to a very nearly teenaged boy myself I'm probably being massively hypocritical but the issue I'd have had if it was him (which with fresh eyes I can see it's not) would have been his exclusion of my mother.

I have more of a sisterly relationship with her in a lot of ways (she was 18 when she had me and he was 20 so they're still pretty young) and I know a lot about their sex life, which she is very dissatisfied with. I know 100% that she would have viewed him doing something like that as a betrayal and I know it would have ended their relationship if she'd discovered it (I wouldn't have told her, but I'd have told him I knew) because we discussed something similar at the start of this year.

DreamOfTheEndless was right, my initial response was an emotional one but it was just a knee jerk reaction to something I came across while I was dog tired. If I found out they were getting their kink on I'd be delighted. I'd distance myself from the details, but I'd love to think their sex life was as healthy as my own as we all deserve to have that.