Sum Sub wrote:
I don't have a boyfriend or husband to tell :(
I was just about to say the same thing. :'(
When I do have a playmate/partner, I'll tell them (if it's something the like hearing about, and they usualy do!) Maybe not every time, because I do it a lot and it would get boring :)
Good for you :)
And welcome back!
Yes, we both tell each other when we've cum, as well as sending the occasional photo, and what we thought about / watched etc... it's a nice thing to wake up to ;-)
My partner and I live in different cities due to work, he is always telling me that he masturbates and I will do the same. Keeps things spiced up and I don't see the harm in it unless we are doing it because other people are turning us on!
I don't see why there should be any shame in masturbation. I learnt to gave myself orgasms through masturbation and for me it's one of the biggest stress relievers and ways for me to relax and actually appreciate my body. What's wrong with that? Better than TV ;)
I don't think my partner would take it well, sort of like going behind his back type of thing thats the impression i get from him, could be wrong! As he's watched female solo before But wouldn't want to chance it hehe xx
We have just started doing this and it is fantastic, infact, when one of us tells the other it also sometimes leads to that other going for a play as it gets us so horny.
Our children are just at the age where they do not need constant attention and we are starting to see each other in a sexual way again, not just as baby making machines or parents, and this is a great way to remind each other when we are not together of the lust for each other that was shelved because of having children.
(Disclaimer:I will also point out that our children are our everything and always come first and we no way regret the profound effect they have had on every part of our livess ;-) )
Same for us wavey davey iv just gotten my sex drive back! Loving it lol starting to feel like a milf and not a tired, weathered young parent with a back like a 90 year old haha xx
Choconala wrote:
Same for us wavey davey iv just gotten my sex drive back! Loving it lol starting to feel like a milf and not a tired, weathered young parent with a back like a 90 year old haha xx
Wavey_Davey wrote:
We have just started doing this and it is fantastic, infact, when one of us tells the other it also sometimes leads to that other going for a play as it gets us so horny.
Our children are just at the age where they do not need constant attention and we are starting to see each other in a sexual way again, not just as baby making machines or parents, and this is a great way to remind each other when we are not together of the lust for each other that was shelved because of having children.
(Disclaimer:I will also point out that our children are our everything and always come first and we no way regret the profound effect they have had on every part of our livess ;-) )
And same for me too. For a fair few years there wasnt much action. But my sex drive has picked right back up, and now its higher than my husbands. I probably masterbate much more than him. Sometimes he knows, sometimes not!
My sex drive is much higher than my OH and I masterbate quite a lot, almost every day, sometimes more than nce a day. If I told my OH each time he would be bored of hearing about it in a week. He knows I masterbate but usually leaves me to it, he is not bothered about watching very oftern.
He see it that while I'm pleasuring myself I not demanding sex from him.
I do, he loves to know when I'm feeling horny and when I play. But I don't tell him everytime I do because, as others have said, it'd get boring.
Sometimes I tell him, if it comes up in conversation. If I haven't told him it's not because I don't want him to, it's just that it isn't relevant.
Sometimes he tells me when he has. I find that quite hot. Like to ask him about it - did he watch porn whilst doing it, did he fantasise? What about? Usually gets me going 😂
I have always told my hubby when I have masturbated and tbh normally I masturbate when he is with me and it's such a turn on him watching me especially while is also masturbating too.LilMissRachel wrote:
My boyfriend loves that I masturbate frequently and says it really turns him on to think about me doing it. I have no problem to let him know when I've had an orgasm on my own but my friend says she would be mortifed if her boyfriend knew she was masturbating. Are you happy for him to know what you do alone?
I don't need to tell my wife, she just seems to know that I have! She rarely admits to to masterbating, but she does have a discreet lipstick style vibrator. When she does tell me it turns me on hearing about it and even better is when I get to watch her pleasuring herself.
I never did systematically but I would when he would ask or when it was relevent.
Now I started including him in my masturbation sessions and it's been great so far. It's no longer masturbation sessions as he now is part of it and it just turns out to be sex and it's really great cause it was missing before that.
Always tell him. Sometimes send him videos
She always tells me. When she knows I am interruptable at work, she'll call me and give me a commentary whilst she does it. :-)
Not most of the time, to me it's my time / solo.
I'm about to have a quick play now before the rest of the household wake up and yes I will be telling my boyfriend
My oh frequently does it, all the time! Tbh so do I. Ito just a natural thing between us. 😄