For years I've always masturbated by hand but after discovering sex toys I haven't even bothered to go back to the old way. The orgasms I can achieve by hand don't even compare to what I can get with a toy. Why settle for a level 4 orgasm when I can get a level 10 one with a little toy action?
Sure, there's more effort involved (cleaning, storing, etc.) but I think it's worth the extra mile for that "payoff".
I'm wondering if anyone else feels this way?
I’m the exact same the only time I’ll do it “manually” is if I’m out somewhere and have no toys on me and the mood just hits me and it’s a case of needs must 😂 other than that it’s always with toys, as you say the orgasms with toys are so much better than without I will never ever go back!
I find my orgasms to be more tender and deeper when it's myself or someone else without toys. Toys have simply added an extra.
probaby "most" people still do manual, with a little help?
i have a few toys but still masterbate by hand often,,,and i just like the feel of my cock..lol
Still do it the old fashioned way just as much, toys are good and great but i like to mix things up and do different things while i masturbate.
I do tend to do it myself when Im watching or reading porn but the rest of the time I’ll use a toy of some sort. Got a magic wand today can’t wait to try it out.
Mostly by hand, but recently tried using the tip of a vibrator and had a nice orgasm after about 10 minutes. The last few seconds before cumming were nice as I could regulate the pleasure .... on .... off .... on .... off ..... But it was so nice I just had to cum. Will do that method more often.
Even though I've got lots of toys I do still let my fingers do the work now and then . It makes for a bit of a change and also I find that using extra powerful toys too often leads me to become a bit desensitised and if that happens I just take a weeks break from them and go back to using my fingers.
Sometimes I'm just too lazy to get the toys out !
I only do it by hand at the moment because my wand is broke. Orgasms are so much better with a wand
All ways manually but sometimes with various cock rings to enhance the pleasure
Yeah, love the feeling of manual actually. Can’t beat (lol) a good old fashioned wank. Left handed even better - feels like someone else! The question is whether to catch it in a tissue or shoot it up my belly...
Yeah, mix it up, and it's not always possible to go all out with toys, a discreet manual wank is sometimes all you can manage, or indeed need/want. I tend to make toy sessions a little more planned and organised, true alone time with absolutely zero risk of interruption, lots of prep and setup.
No, I’d rather use a toy. It’s faster and for me, more satisfying!
I still manually masterbate. I'm a very sexually aroused person, and although my OH loves me his illness means we are unable to have sex. So I masterbate a lot, and sometimes the urge and need for release means there is no toy to hand. I can come pretty quickly really just a couple of minuites even manually.
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I still manually masterbate. I'm a very sexually aroused person, and although my OH loves me his illness means we are unable to have sex. So I masterbate a lot, and sometimes the urge and need for release means there is no toy to hand. I can come pretty quickly really just a couple of minuites even manually.
I am in similar situation , wife is disabled and rarely feels like it . Being as horny as I am and more loyal than a dog I manually masterbate a lot . Many time with a toy that sometimes really steps it up a notch or two . , Remember to switch hands ! It not only helps prevent repetitive muscle problems , it is almost like a mystery date !
toys are fun and can heighten your pleasure but i don't think you can beat a warm hand or fingers.
It happens extremely rarely that I will not use a toy. Most of the times I'm not at y place so I don't have a toy to use, while other times I'm so excited that I don't have the time to grab the nearest toy - for the first orgasm, that is. :P
It's toys all the way for me as well. If I'm desperate I can use my fingers, but to be really honest I'd rather masturbate less (let's say if I don't get a chance to get my beloved toys out) than do it often with my fingers. Whilst I enjoy a bit of back to basics and fingers action, the intensity of my orgasms with toys is much superior and it happens in a shorter period of time - what for me being an extremely busy person makes all the difference.
Me I love I good manual play. Can’t beat the feel around your helmet and eye 👍👍👍👍