My parter knows I watch porn, we have also watched it together, you shouldn’t feel embarrassed at all its a really normal thing, but i understand its not as normalised for women as it is for men.
Wife and I send links to particularly interesting videos 
And I had the same with one of my previous girlfriends… nothing better than openness and honesty!
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Yes, my wife knows. I don’t watch much or very often … I’ve asked if we can try watching together. Honestly, if I had it my way we’d make our own videos because she’s who I’d really prefer to see on-screen.
@newbiejen I’d strongly encourage burying the shyness as much as possible, and tell him. Share your sexual side. I can’t imagine any scenario where he’d be disappointed.
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My partner used to watch porn so much she became addicted to it. She considered producing porn also (as there is so much rubbish out there)
However, now she doesn’t watch any, due to her previous relationship with it.
Also, there is an ethical side - we know people that have been in the adult industry and suffered abuse.
I watch porn and she does know that. Personally, I don’t like a lot of it and don’t really find any new ideas in there, but I don’t really watch any porn that is outside of a solo lady masturbating.
The sex I have with my wife is very gentle and sensual and I find it much more erotic. I hate anything to do with rough sex, spitting or any of that kind of stuff.
I know you can find anything you want on the internet these days, but I’m pretty old though now … I’d rather see my wife in a sexy position than anyone else.
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We don’t talk about it but my wife is not naive. She knows I’m kinky and as she’s not giving me what i need, she must be aware im pleasing myself.
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Same as us, well my husband will ask me for links, he says i do better research 
I’ll ask what he likes and am happy to find something for him, i dont necessarily watch and its not all the time as he can take or leave it. He gets bored scrolling to find something.
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We watch together and find the old 70s stuff a real turn on, probably because we are practically old 70s ourselves 
. Modern stuff doesn’t work for us.
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Yes she knows i watch it, mainly when shes travelling for work. We maybe watch it together once every few weeks. She said she doesnt watch it much alone.
Yes we often watch porn together, also we send urls to each other. We also get some new ideas from watching porn together, but I often show her what I would like to do to her or wat I want her to do to me.
Nothing better than watching porn together.
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Yes, we are open to the topic and watch it together. Mainly to have a good chuckle at the silly “plot lines” and to get shot ideas…we love making and watching our own private videos more than anything. We are careful that we don’t watch or make too much of it though. When digging through all the camera content and editing videos you can get numb to the visual stimulus and it makes it difficult to get a positive physical response during the act itself…don’t want to burn out those receptors.
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We both watch privately, although we’ve been having issues about defining if it’s secretive or not. However we have watched together too.
I’ve since given S/O my login for the site I use. Which was strangely exhilarating
My wife has no idea that I watch porn. She is very much against it which I s difficult for me as I’d love to watch and masturbate together. Another fantasy that’s very unlikely to become reality
We watch Lelulove and have learned a lot since we were each other’s virgin.