this is something that i have always been curious about. is it really possible to penetrste and thrust both holes at the same time. in porn films it always looks like one participant is penetrated but not thrusting.
has anyone had any real life experience and is it enjoyable or just plain uncomfortable?
I've tried it with my boyfriend and a vibrator, it really hurt me so we decided to just leave it, I'll put a butt plug or something in during sex but larger things kinda hurt
If your going to try it with a toy and you want both thrusting I suggest lots of lube on the toy so you dont have pain and it easy to thrust as such and use a smallest dildo to start you off with .
I would also suggest making sure that the toy you use is flexible so it can yield to the extra internal pressure being created. The wall of your intestines is delicate and you don't want to cause damage from excessive internal pinching.
I tried DP with a glass plug in my butt and him in the front and A) He could barely get in and B) It hurt. It put me off trying again, thinking it wasn't for me, until I recently tried with a silicone plug with a flexible neck. ironically the silicone plug with flexible neck was bigger and I thought "Not a chance" but it worked out much better and was actually enjoyable, with no pain.
So yeh, choose your toy wisely. Avoid rigid/solid toys and choose something more flexible or squishy. These toys will move and flex inside you as he moves inside the other hole.
I lova anal as long as hubby starts off slow and uses lots of lube. Once he is in nice and deep I love him putting his fingers in me and massage my clit, it's amazing.