One of my favourites when getting intimate with the wife is to finger and fuck her at the same time. Once warmed up, and when being spooned, she can take 3-4 fingers as well as my dongle.
We've been without a sensible sized dildo/vibe in the toy box for a while, but I'm quite keen to get something, not too girthy/oversized, that I can use in place of my digits.
Suggestions welcome, as are recommendations of what you find the best sequence of inserting the double act to be!
Personal prefs of toy are realistic and nothing with a cutting smell!