Ever had sex while OH was watching?

Are there people here that have watched their partner have sex with someone else? What do you think of it?

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Hi @Some-no-one If hit :magnifying_glass_tilted_left: and then input what you are looking for, you’ll find many posts about this topic :blush:

Questions about Sharing
My First Threesome Advice
Watching My Wife with other men

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Thanks for both feedbacks… will do :grin:

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I’m ethically non-monogamous and I’d be completely fine with it; I love both of my partners and love seeing them happy. I tend to get protective more than I get jealous: my partners’ happiness is paramount to me and if someone is making them unhappy? I really struggle with not doing or saying something about it.

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I have only ever used a dildo or a sex toy while hubby has watched so no other person was involved and i have never watched hubby have sex with anyone else. Neither of us wou!d want to watch each other with anyone else. We only play together and dont want or need anyone else.

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No I have only been watched while having sex with a partner.

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Yes (If you read my blog, you’ll know this is very regular). We both get off watching other people have sex with each other, and I love other women getting done to them what I get done to me. I love it.

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We have been working up to this, wife watched me get a BJ, next time I’m going to watch her give a BJ and then hopefully sex. Personally I love the idea, we are very secure in our relationship and spoke about it a lot before doing it and shared our feelings afterwards, which was basically horny as hell!

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I’ll start reading it asap :wink:

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Oh yes lots of time, with my girlfriend and he would take part as well sometimes.

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Yes lots of time,

We both love seeing the other experience pleasure, and we both enjoy watching others do that too.

We usually end up giving a helping hand and joining in though!

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I watched my partner have sex with her female bestie and a friend of mine. When we were much younger and started our relationship we were very open.

We came home drunk a few times with her friend who stayed out and they kissed and giggled a lot in bed which ended up them going down on eachother. We then had a moment with one of my friends and his partner. We all started getting flirty after an evening at ours and we swapped, he finished in his partner though and I finished in mine. We have also had a few experiences at clubs and saunas where we would swap or play with others.

I can be protective over my partner in situations but if it’s just “sex” we can switch the emotions off and just enjoy the pleasure. I will 100% say it’s not for everyone though, you really need to speak to eachother and get the honest answer of how you can feel as it will damage a lot of couples emotionally.

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Is this the cuckold thing?

No, not in particular. :wink:

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Cuck is different from swapping, that’s more of a degradation type fetish.

So depends on which was your doing this :rofl:

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We’re definitely not cuckolding when we do it. We just love watching other people shag our partners.

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I watched my wife ride a man she found in a club on Saturday. I was in the middle of fucking our FWB, but she kindly positioned herself so I could get a great view from behind of her sliding the man inside! :grin:

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My wife has watched me and our female friend having sex. My wife really enjoyed watching us.

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