My boyfriend and I practice some BDSM with quite hard spanking at times. Moving from being slapped by my ex-es non-consensually to now being the consensual boss meant a lot for us both, apart from holding the revenge tool :)
We're used to the usual bend-over-the-bed positions and using crop and kitcheen stuffs on his arse. Now we are thinking of trying new things, so turning to you guys here for suggestions.
We have never tried spanking on his hands or feet, some people say it's erogenus. What tools can I use for these areas? Bear in mind, being a lady, I don't have strong muscles!! :)
Has anyone tried whips? Looks quite scary but sexy.
At the risk of offending Jess ![](upload://h7LJ67OOrR57VDYrj5ZEwwHAfLG.gif), you can use cane or tawse on hand and feet as was practised in English schools but you have to be just careful. My girlfriend is a swim coach, so caning her on the usual places is out of question. The skin on hand and feet are thicker and they don't leave marks ![](upload://ez5kOkpKXRZOxjavAURYmQxVTau.gif)
Hey Gosig, it's looks lovely but we don't have a large space in our home. Does it make much noise? Afraid of waking up the neighbours