Hi all, I'm new so please bare with me but I was hoping for some advice.
I love giving my husband head and he obviously loves it too so I can't be doing too badly. I love to be controlled and have him grab my head and thrust, the problem is we both get carried away and before I know it, he's deep throating me and I can't control my gag reflex. Does anyone have any tips to prevent gagging? At times I've been close to bringing something up....not very sexy for us!
You can buy a spray that numbs your throat (look at product code 29069) , I tried for the 1st time today as my guys it rather large and this spray helped.
Also a friend taught me how to adjust mouth & throat so you can take more in, try with a banana or something to practise. I had a friend with terrible gag reflext she struggled to use a tooth brush and she practised this tecnique, but that spray worked, all mouth and throat goes numb so give it a try.
When you brush your teeth brush the back of your tongue. Each time you will be able to get further and further back without gagging. I also recommend the Doc Johnson Good Head spray tastes yum and actually works, better than the others I've tried.
I know someone on the forum once said about pressing your index finger and your thumb together and it supposably helping.. I often try it but doesn't seem to work for me though I know others have said it was a great tip so you could give that a go too? x
this all sounds like good advice - I need to get on with giving head to my OH but always worry about doing it wrong - please give me some advice :)
I learnt a lot from watching porn.. If you want to learn about good technique it's worth watching some gay porn, that's what I did anyway. Best advice I can give is watch your teeth, keep things wet, go as deep as you can, make sure he knows your loving it too, use your tongue espeically at the tip, tease a bit at first by running your tongue along his length and swirling it round the tip, when things get going speed up as much as you can, and when he is going to cum keep to the same rhythm :) xx
I have read that too holding the base firm (not too firm). I love giving a BJ to my CC it makes me feel so horny and he is the 1st I have ever swollowed with and I did not think I would like that but I love it (with him I do). I want to try the lying on bed with him standing over me I keep saying I will try it but then I just get all caught up in the moment and lie him down with a pillow and get to work!!! lol Any other good tips you can pass on??
Unfortunately my tonsils are huge so it literally won't fit in the gap and just won't go any further. Hopefully going to be having surgery to get them removed soon though so am looking forward to try giving my man head after that and seeing how much furher we can take it :) x
this all sounds like good advice - I need to get on with giving head to my OH but always worry about doing it wrong - please give me some advice :)
My biggest tip is try and relax about it! Don't worry about doing anything wrong (but keeping your teeth out the way is important) and listen/watch for feedback from your OH. If you relax and start enjoying yourself he will likely find it a major turn on anyway. Oh and I've always found it's best not to chop` and change what you're doing too often, get into a flow he enjoys and stick with it for a bit.
Don't forget the balls too, pop them in your mouth, gentle massage, licking it's all good.
By the way, my lovely hubs just said 'Tell her once shes got her lips clamped around his knob he's going to be more than happy, just keep the canines out the way and you're on to a winner' lol