It feels really odd posting this here to a group of people I've never met IRL before (albeit really helpful lovely people), but I just really need to tell someone, so I'm telling you guys: I think I've finally orgasmed!
I've mentioned in other comments before that this is something I'm trying to figure out, and I've been working on it with my We-Vibe Tango since I got it. I was just playing with it while browsing the webs, not focusing too much on it, and after a really long play - depleting my Tango once, semi-charging it and going at it again - I think my body finally yielded. It wasn't mind-blowing or earth-shattering, but I felt my body stiffen, then 'end', if that makes sense. Followed by a bit of a headache. I'm more estatic that I've finally done it than from the orgasm itself lol coz it was so tiny. Really need to get on reviewing the Tango! ![](upload://l9s9e23YKLHpoOzgGVeUkhZGcEr.gif)
I remember my first one, I was riding my boyfriend at the time and it nearly blew my socks off (Metaphorical socks, of course ;) ) Since then, I know what position usually makes me cum. Have yet to have a really really big one with a toy but I think it's I'm usually on my back,
Thanks everyone! I'm trying not to get expectations up and just enjoy the process, it's certainly rewarded me with my first! :D
Ember C I didn't think position would factor in, and maybe you're right. I was sitting up this time - I thought it was just me focusing too much on orgasming when it's just me and the vibrator.
Your G-spot is on the front wall of your vagina, it's also a little hidden- so if you're on your back, prop your hips upwards or grab a dildo and find a way to ride it into orgasmy bliss :)
Foreplay is also incredibly important for getting you aroused- it'll make your g-spot swell a little so it's easier to find.
Your G-spot is on the front wall of your vagina, it's also a little hidden- so if you're on your back, prop your hips upwards or grab a dildo and find a way to ride it into orgasmy bliss :)
Foreplay is also incredibly important for getting you aroused- it'll make your g-spot swell a little so it's easier to find.
Best of luck <3
This was only clitoral though and on my own - I don't have a dildo or internal toys atm! Looking for a really small one but haven't found it yet! WIll keep that in mind, thank youu :)
Yay!!! I'm so happy to read this (I hope that doesn't sound creepy!) Don't worry about it only being a little one. After my first orgasm I thought "Is that it??" I've learned since to appreciate them. Hope you have many more. :)