I bought a Mantric rabbit vibrator last week. The reviews were awesome and promised heaven on a stick so I grabbed it. So after I got it and charged up etc I tried to use it. Well ok it's too big! Was a very painful and uncomfortable feeling. A couple of times it felt good but didn't progress from there. I haven't had penetrative sex for a very long time so even with loads of lube it wasn't easy, I've also had bleeding over the past few days which I can't attribute to anything else. I tried to use the arm on my clit but it just wouldn't work. So now I have a not so cheap vibrator I can't use, bleeding and I'm feeling sore and uncomfortable. Wish there was a place to sell this stuff though imagine nobody would want to buy one thats been used, even if only once!
Or does anyone have any tips on how I can manage this problem and best ways to use it and get used to it? I haven't had kids either so I'm pretty tight. I just couldn't get it to fit properly so I may be doing something wrong. Have ordered a bunny ears vibe so hoping that will suit better. That's probably what I should have done at the start. Thanks in advance
Sorry you're having this problem, I haven't personally used this, but it does get a lot of hype and people seem to love it. I wonder if perhaps you went to big for the first time? Might you be better starting of with something smaller from a penetrative point of view and then a bullet on your clit if you like clit stim?
If you think its definitely not for you, there is the LoveHoney Happiness promise which might apply to you? Check it out and contact customer service to see if they can help. I've always found them to be a lovely bunch and super helpful.
There are lots of lovely and helpful folks on the forum so someone else might be able to offer different advice to me.
It's always a shame when you buy a toy and get excited only then find out it's not the one for you. Lovehoney do have a Happiness Promise where they'll swop the toy out for another if you tried it and didn't get on with it. 👍 I'll give you the link if you want more info.
If you're finding penetration a bit tricky you can start with slimmer toys and work your way up as you get more comfortable. Even starting off with fingers can help you loosen up before you move on to inserting anything. If it's more of a serious issue there are dilator sets that can help too, though I'd be tempted try slimmer dildos/toys first.
I'll also mention the amazing special offers Lovehoney regularly has as I think they're a great way of trying out lots of toys without breaking the bank. 🙂 I wrote a mini-intro to them in the thread below if you want to read more. There's some great ones this weekend, which you can find in the Special Offers thread. 👍
Sympathies! I have this toy and liked it at first but seem to find it less comfortable now. It’s very bulbous and I’m quite petite and seem to have lost a bit of ‘stretch’ as I’ve got older. Sounds like you might be better off with a slimline Rabbit, or a slim vibrator with a tapered end combined with a bullet. Give customer services a ring - no need to be embarrassed as they are super helpful and will easily swap it for you.
I hope you find something you like. I’m having probs with my computer and can’t post links, but the Fifty Shades range has a similar but smaller shaped toy and also a slimline Rabbit. Customer services will be able to make suggestions. Good luck!
If penetration is not important then the Bunny Ears vibe is a great product. Most of the time the OH just uses the ears on her normal rabbit vibe to get herself off. Good luck.