Most of you know I am quite open and alert to most things sexually. However...having recieved my review toy from LH, I am in a quandry.
My oldest vibrator is a straight, phallic object that buzzes. The new one is all singing and dancing, and I just DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO WITH IT!!! Lol.
I am used to using my fingers to get started and then quite literally shove the vibe in and do my self. I am not used to the ones with the ears on......
Question is.....do i?
1. Lie back and put it in and let it do all the work? And if so how far in do i out it? Up to the hilt of the ears?
2. Start as I usually start and then insert?
Another question
3. Do you turn it on before or after its in?
I know I sound like a complete novice and in the area of new vibrating contraptions, I am. I have tried it, but just didnt seem to hit the spot, so to speak!!!
I think you've asked some really good questions there, JoJoxx.
I don't know if this will reassure you, but I have never really enjoyed rabbit vibrators. I have a favourite glass dildo I use, and I have favourite clitoral vibrators. But I've never managed to really enjoy using a rabbit.
I think if you write your review from your point of view of not knowing what to do with it, I think that will probably help a lot of people who also may not have a clue what to do with a rabbit.
If I were reviewing it, I'd probably try all the stuff you're asking about myself, and see which works best for me. And then I'd write about the ways I tried to use it, and which ways felt pleasurable and which didn't. I'm sure a lot of people who read rabbit reviews will have similar questions to you.
It might even be helpful if you include what you wrote above in your review!
I'm really sorry I couldn't answer your questions, I hope you find ways of wielding that rabbit which send you to the moon! And I look forward to reading about your efforts. :)
I did try it the first night I got it....but I am afraid it didnt do anything for me. The fella had a look and said that it was fine, so must be me!
I'm thinking that either rabbits just don't work for some women, or maybe it takes specialist training to use a rabbit (night classes, anyone? ;) ), or maybe certain shapes and sizes of women are only suited to certain shapes and sizes of rabbit.
Sure the rabbit might be "fine", but fine for what?
Perhaps we ought to start a gang of women who don't enjoy rabbits? We could call it Wabbitless Women maybe?
Well I can't tell you what you SHOULD do but I can say what I do. I actually mainly use the ears on a rabbit. I actually turn it round and just use them against my clit. I then sometimes thrust the rabbit inside me (generally holding the ears to do so).
I don't think it matters whether you turn it on inside you or not. I think at the start I generally have it off until it's in and then turn it on but after a while I thrust it in and out when it's on.
I don't think that with any toy u can leave it entirely alone. I always move it around.
Personally I don't actually find rabbits as amazing as other toys now. The rotating motion of the shaft was why I bought my first one but I hardly ever actually use that!
oooooooh u got a rabbit to try out! you lucky things!
i love my rabbit, u do sort to have to get used to it but when u do ur never look back!
2. Start as I usually start and then insert?
u can do wot ever u want before u use it, jojo. sometimes i use a clit vibe first to get things going so to speak but sometimes just add lube and go lol.
3. Do you turn it on before or after its in?
i dont tend to turn mine on till ive got it inside me, also i tend to start with only turning on eaither the dildo bit of it or the rabbit ears first as both stright away can be a bit much to start with.
1. Lie back and put it in and let it do all the work? And if so how far in do i out it? Up to the hilt of the ears?
i found that u really dont have to do to much, i start off with just putting it inside me and getting used to it being there then to work things up i start to move it in and out like u do with normal toys. as for how much to put in, i put mine in all the way but use lube and go slowly and then before u know it ears and dildo are all the way in.
oh not the norm size ones, hmmmmm dunno wot to say as i dunno wot they look like. lol
sorry was no help
Dxx
Of course you were of help hun.
Any advice on how to use one is welcome - no matter what the size of them.
I went to buy my first vibe last september and the shop ass, tried to sell me one......I looked at her horrified and say no way hose is THAT going anywhere near me.....! She laughed and said it would...so I said, look its my first vibe Im not going to buy a ruddy monster...and she could not believe that I had never owned a vibe before.
Im looking forward to testing it to be honest - as it will be a totally new thing for me to use...bring it on!
I was gonna get a rabbit next time. But not so sure now. I've not really found one that has brilliant reviews except the one and most people have said they prefer their other vibes to the fancier rabbit. I put off getting a rabbit last time and got the cosmic curve instead. I need to finish exploring all i can do with that first before moving on lol. Rabbits aint cheap either so i dont fancy spending all that money and then getting it home and it not doing anything for me. Which rabbit would you say is best for a first time rabbit user? *off to bitofWOWs website!*