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Hi Breanna,

I’d be interested in sharing the journey of discovery from the perspective of someone who has only ever been with one person - that hasn’t diminished the journey at all! Happy to talk about discovery with a long term partner and essential communication to find what works. :slight_smile:

Hello @Lovehoney_Brenna!

I’d definitely be willing to give it a go. We are in our 50s. I’d likely write about how until a few years ago my wife and I were pretty vanilla in the bedroom. I found your site looking for ways to liven things up. I really felt like I was going out on a limb but I shared it with my spouse.

That sparked an interest in us both to improve our sex lives. Since then, and many purchases later, we have become quite adventurous. We’ve purchased various items from Lovehoney since including more traditional vibrators, to bondage items, and even anal toys. Overall, finding your company, has helped us to fully enjoy our sexuality.

Whether we are chosen to write or not, we appreciate your company and will be purchasing many more things in the future.

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Hi Brenna, we are Simon_72_Mel_76 from Australia. We are a married couple with 4 children together 22 years now and swingers from the start. We won EroAwards.com BestSwingers 2020, not bad for a pair of OLD and rather rough round the edges lifestylers from far off dirty downunder, well we were quite surprised anyway. We have also created, produced and starred in porn on the XVideos network where we are listed as a Porn star couple, amateur porn couple and channel in Australia, UK and Europe, the Pornhub/Modelhub network as models and also with the xHamster network listed also as porn stars, again we have been surprised by the recognition considering the small amount of content we have actually produced. We are very strong advocates for our version of Ethical Pornography and originally decided to pursue the path of porn specifically to try and promote these beliefs even if it is only in a minuscule way as it is something that has a great influence on a huge portion of the world’s population sometimes causing unhealthy beliefs, behaviours and confusion. Our children are almost of the age to become legal consumers and we feel a responsibility to do something about it. Not that we want them to watch us, we are just hoping that the ethical movement will help sway what porn has been in some areas created like a Block Buster Super Hero Movie where the heroes are able to undertake the impossible and perform sexual feats that aren’t exactly practical and sometimes can be physically or mentally destructive for those of the normal world who try and participate in them. So we are adding our small voices to the others ahead of us attempting to initiate some changes in the industry, as they say every vote counts. Not to mention both of us have been quite avid consumers ourselves and sometimes wish for more realistic portrayals of sex and a more natural and varied representation within the models and stars who are acting in these scenes. This is ofcourse is just our own personal tastes and we recognise that other consumers will have different tastes and as long as those preferences aren’t causing harm then they have every right to be able to access whatever they wish, not to mention the industry itself has every right to make a profit as legitimate businesses and individuals. So although neither of us has a university degree to validate any of our beliefs or contributions that you may allow us to make as guest authors. However at our ages of 49(me) and 45(Mel) we have gained a bit of experience in the things we have persued as self professed Hyperheterosexuals and Full Swap Fanatics, it has given us the opportunity to be sexually intimate with many different partners over the years but also balancing this with raising a family and successfully being in a long-term marriage. We are more than happy to talk about how we have gone about achieving this. We also hope we are both considered to be SLUTs Sexual Lustful Uninhibited and Talented in the bedroom and anywhere allowed at all infact. So we may also be able to contribute some of the ways we approach something as fundamental as eating, sleeping and breathing, again in our opinion, having sex and not only enjoying it but being confident and able to give as much pleasure to our partner/s as we expect for ourselves. Finally we ofcourse will be more than happy to discuss our beliefs and ideals to do with the porn and the ethical course we follow in that industry, although this is maybe not something that we have nearly as much experience in, having only been a part of it for the past 2 years in a creative rather than consumer capacity and not particularly prolific or professional in our pursuit of this part time vocation. The one last thing that we believe may be of interest to others is the fact that we have never hidden or kept quiet about anything in our lives of a sexual preference either pastime, lifestyle or work. Neither of us have felt shame at all for our choices and have not suffered much discrimination at all from family, friends, acquaintances, work mates or employers to be honest. That’s not to say that there hasn’t been some encountered over the years but it brings out more of a sense of pity for those who have had such strong negative issues around sex that it pushes them to act towards us in such a way. Also without a sense of shame comes a sense of being which can give a feeling of pride this seems to be a deterrent to anyone who may normally try and take advantage, coerce or exploit you, having transparent and honest choices being proudly proclaimed by you gives the power to expose anything these people may try and attempt, ofcourse we can only relate this to Australian society and are aware that in other nations this may not be possible, “we are the lucky country” as all Australians are told, it’s true we are lucky we live in Dirty Downunder.

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I have a couple of articles I wrote for the Oh! Spot that weren’t picked up which I could tweak to update, they are:

  • 8 ways to bag the best bargains on Lovehoney
  • 7 reasons why She’s Gotta Have It is my favourite TV show
  • 7 Sexy Gifts to Give Your Partner (That Don’t Cost a Thing)
  • 6 Luxurious Lingerie Gifts (for You or Your Lover)
  • How to make a crotchless knicker bunny

I can also write on the following:

Intimacy after bereavement/loss
Being a sex positive feminist
What is vanilla privilege?

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Hi Brenna,

I could be interested in having a go at this!

Possible subjects :

New to toys
Couples using toys
Discovering anal play
Toy that always guarantees me an orgasm

Thanks!

Hi Brenna

I would be happy to take part in this and share mine and my partners experience either as a couple or solo.
I have various things I could share.
Would like to hear from you
Thanks

I was curious if there might be a chance to do a topic possibly on having a first-time experience, while being an A-Sexual, using toys. Also, trying to learn to understand one’s desire by trying to understand toys that might be a great start to support the desire that one is craving; on their own, while never needing to change one’s status.

Hi there! I am a 35 year old woman who is in an absolutely beautifully loving,passionate and VERY close relationship with a man 25 years my senior! He is fit and healthy & looks in his 40’s still & he is the only man who has been able to “Fulfill” my needs, We are engaged and our emotional and physical relationship is incredibly intense,We love nothing more than to show each other how very much we love each other by satisfying each others sexual desires, We adore trying out new items to further enhance & elevate our pleasure with your toys & lingerie,blindfolds,games & your massaging tools… This has lead to a VERY happy and loving long term relationship that just seems to bring us closer together over time…I would be more than happy to write more about my experiences so please do feel free to contact me…my preferred toys are clitoral,internal for female…kegel enhancers & exercisers,gels & slim line butt stimulators…Lingerie,massagers,sensual oils,stimulators for him like cock rings & stimulaters for balls…Basically I love ANYTHING that can help to up the levels of stimulation!! :smiley: Thank You

Hello!
Me & my soon to be wife have a HUGE collection of your toys, and have also recently joined the swingers club scene. We always take our own Lovehoney toys with us and, as we like to not only be watch others but even more so like to put on shows for anyone to watch, we also let others join in & let them try out some of our (cleaned!) toys. Most of them have never tried many of the toys & goodies we have. The glass ribbed dildo is proving particular popular! I’ll not go into too much detail of what kind of play we get up to, both just the two of us but also threesomes, foursomes & more moresomes, but needless to say they ALWAYS involve Lovehoney toys. From simple cock rings, to G spot massagers, bondage gear, spreader bars, glass toys for both vaginal & anal use, we always leave our playmates a little more enlightened and willing to try toys they would not have otherwise tried!

Hi

I recently became a widower. Before she died my wife suggested I buy a Prostate massager as I have Erectile Dysfunction and was also getting up to pee in the night.
My first purchase was a Lovehoney Pleasure Probe 10 function vibrator.
I really enjoyed the sensations it gave me and it also seemed to help to a degree with the erection problem.
I decided to try the Lovehoney Curve Cruiser. When it arrived I was a little concerned that it might be a bit on the large side.
However, I found that by taking things slowly and using plenty off lube I could take it in.
The sensations aroused were even better than with the Pleasure Probe.
I now use both at different times according to how I am feeling.

Hi would be interested in helping out. In a great dynamic with my to be husband of nearly 5 years

I’m happy to write about my happy toy box containing many items from the wand to nipple clamps and other various toys I also love my bed restraints

Hey Brenna

I wouldn’t say I’m an author but I can string a few sentences together. I need to get creative again so I’d love to be your guest Mrs Potts.

I can write on
Cross dressing motivations
Cross dressing v TV/TS
Being a pansexual guy
Sounding
Electro Stim
When is big too big (anal toys)
Swinging for single guys
Sex swings and slings
Anything else you think might be relevant
and I’ll rise to the challenge of trademark Lovehoney puns and humour where the subject warrants.

I don’t need to be anonymous or have my name in lights. Whatever works.

Pop me on the pad of potentials please

Thanks Brenna
Mel
x

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Hi Brenna, I would be interested - especially about the sex bundle that is purple. Purchased last week and have lots to say about it!
Ellie-Mae x

Hi Brenna!
I would love to write a few posts. I would be confident writing about the following topics;

Getting into anal / Anal for beginners
Tips to feel sexy and confident as a plus sized person
Reigniting a spark with your partner after baby loss
Exploring new kinks as a couple
How to start a conversation about sex with a partner
How to set sexual boundaries within your relationship
How to get into the swinging lifestyle as a couple
Tips for solo female masturbation

If you are looking for posts about any of the above topics I would love to write a few up. All of the points above I have personal experience with and would feel confident giving advice to others about the same issues. X

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Hi Brenna
I’d love to be considered for this, as I’m new to the forum but have bought lovehoney products for years now and found out about the forum from the channel 4 documentary the other night.
I’d love to write about how my current partner has opened the doors for me to enjoy sex. I’ve tried so many new things with him and I feel comfortable to do anything with him and letting myself go.
Sex toys, outdoor sex, squirting, bondage, anal sex, feeling good in lingerie the hole works.
I can know say I absolutely love sex and masturbating. And that there’s still so much more to explore. Positivity around sex is fantastic
H x

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My wife and I will be attending a sex party for the first time on New Years Eve - both dressed in sexy (and quite revealing) costumes! We’d be happy to write about our impressions and experiences from the night. One of my wife’s friends will be attending with us, and while I can’t confirm if she’d be willing to write an article herself we may be able to write up an interview with her instead.

I know it’s not a sex act/activity/toy so probably not exactly what you’re after for this post, but I think the most valuable thing I would share is navigating being the high libido woman in a het relationship regarding expectations, rejection, communication and needs, alongside managing anorgasmia both primary & as medication side effect.

I think there’s still a lot of harmful stereotypes of men-always-want-sex, and vulnerability around asking for what you want as a woman when he doesn’t, or is oblivious, and then struggling to orgasm puts even more pressure on this.

For me it does still involve a lot of toys, but more importantly a lot more communication and intimacy.

I’d like to talk about my obsession with edging with fake pussies

Would love to review some men’s prostate toys love playing with my ass and reaching maximum pleasure