Hi people my wife has recently discovered she likes a finger in her bum when I'm down on her and also she will put a finger in during sex as well. We have also tried full anal a few times but we are using just normal lube and it leaves her sore. So what I'm asking is could anyone recommend a butt plug for before anal? And also lube because there Seems to be soo many different types?! Thanks for any help or advice.
Hi we'd recommend
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33014
And this lube
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=31585
We bought them both earlier this year and now wouldn't be without them for anal play.
Hi,
I used to use normal lube for anal play too before I bought this lube: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=31585 . It really makes a big difference! I find this one to be pretty good but it's the only anal lube I've used so I can't compare.
As for butt plugs, I'd say try something of medium size, as she seems to be used to fingers and may want something a bit bigger. Or you can go for two different sizes in this promotion so you can increase gradually: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/special-offers/2720/ . Go for something labeled as silicone.
I'm no anal expert but as a fellow beginner this would be my advice ;)
Have fun :)
Thanks. Silly question but does it help having a butt plug in before full anal?
Bushpigs wrote:
Thanks. Silly question but does it help having a butt plug in before full anal?
It does but generally I think it's more about using it often. Wearing a butt plug only once before sex probably won't change anything. Some also need to work up in size before getting there
Anyways if you're wife likes having a finger in her bum during oral or penetration, I'm sure she'll enjoy wearing a butt plug very much so try to see this aspect too and not just think about anal sex. the actual butt plug can be enjoyed too.
Thanks for the advice. we some vibrating anal beads but she didn't realise how long it would be so when we do us it she only puts the first couple in so I think she would enjoy a butt plug more. Regarding your other message the link takes me to all of the plugs have one that you would recommend?mamz wrote:
Bushpigs wrote:
Thanks. Silly question but does it help having a butt plug in before full anal?
It does but generally I think it's more about using it often. Wearing a butt plug only once before sex probably won't change anything. Some also need to work up in size before getting there
Anyways if you're wife likes having a finger in her bum during oral or penetration, I'm sure she'll enjoy wearing a butt plug very much so try to see this aspect too and not just think about anal sex. the actual butt plug can be enjoyed too.
Hi Bushpigs, I am glad you asked these questions, as I am curious about the same stuff. I've recently made the same discovery as your OH and was planning to buy a butt plug and a suitable lube. I have been reading the advice forums on this site, and the reviews of the related products, to make my mind up. I love to try new things!
Sorry just reread the link! Thanks again
Ps. I like the prober in this offer (you can read my review of it on my profil page) and it may be a great alternative to anal beads !
This one http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32085 (sorry I didn't realise there was more than one beaded prober)
Hi there
I have just bought these and I have to say both are amazing. The plug is very girly so comes across as less intimidating and pretty (what girl doesn't want a pretty flower there) it is perfect for wear all day and is a good prep for anal sex. Feels great when having sex for both of you too 😊 any lube can be used with this but I bought this one and it's perfect for every toy as its water based but perfect for anal as it keeps slick for longer than normal water based.
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=31111
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=34768
Hi. I have the pink glass flower plug and its lovely. If you think she may like something 'pretty' there then the set of purple silicone jewelled plugs are beautiful and really comfy.
The Coco de Mer anal lube is really good xx
Thank you all. The glass flower plug looks nice but think it might be too much to start with. Will let you know what we go with and how it goes.
It's all about practice. It look a long time to get from just a finger to full anal for us, just start with a small plug and gradually work up in size. We've tried all sorts but find the silicone type most comfortable, especially if you want to leave it in while having viginal sex.
Thank you people I've ordered some lube and a couple of plugs from the offer page. Not sure how to link them but we let you know how it goes!
So I've finally got to pick up the parcel of goodies. Hopefully we will get to use it soon.
I would recommend trying. I'm always lead by the oh when it comes down to anal play weather it's full anal or just foreplay. My advice is if you did want to try full anal then go on top so you can go at your pace. My oh starts that way then goes into doggy style. Just take it slow and have fun!BadBeeble wrote:
Hi Bushpigs, I am glad you asked these questions, as I am curious about the same stuff. I've recently made the same discovery as your OH and was planning to buy a butt plug and a suitable lube. I have been reading the advice forums on this site, and the reviews of the related products, to make my mind up. I love to try new things!