@bath bi guy.. thank's for telling me about the inflatable dildo. we have gone and got one and will try it out when i get ues to the beads.xxxxx @lisa1984 if it is the first time like us i would go with finger's first then when you fill the time is right go with some bead's we did then go from there o yea you will need lot's of lube. when i first did it fu*k me what an orgasm. bum's up..xxxlol