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Depends on your budget, but I / we would recommend the mains powered wand or a good cock ring.
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For couples play, we really like using a vibrating cock ring and our magic wand. We’ve got some other fun toys but haven’t had much opportunity to use them due to her being pregnant, however one that I really want to try out soon is a remote controlled vibrating egg 
Other than that, we also enjoy lots of lingerie.
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