I don't have a shower yet (my brother needs one for his curved spine so we are getting one soon)
I don't really have money to go anywhere and when I do go out I can't just walk over to a guy and chat him up.
I do know what to do was just looking for tips and tricks and yeah I know gym makes it worse but need to lose weight.
Plus cam guy never makes me do anything I don't want to but he happily shows me everything. He will hint though and just say wish you'd take your top off but if I don't want to he won't push it.
Have you thought of adding a bit of temperature play. If you take an ice cube run it under the tap then insert it you will get a very different sensation.
I have thought about it a little not sure if we have ice cubes ready though it that's definitely worth a go. Have tried it on my nipples felt quite nice
Is there a way I could maybe go on cam and be safer? I'm talking to my cam guy and well we haven't said we'll do a video later (I was out with family he's at work) but I was wondering for tips of we do and if I get in the mood to join in. I'm thinking nothing below waist especially due to well being on so that's definitely out but maybe give him a boob tease? If I do it on my phone I'm not sure if I'll be able to type messages to him without him seeing my face (he's already seen it but for the purpose of video safety) hopefully having a good time with him will cool me for a bit. His phone is all fixed now so if it goes off again I'll know to be wary and get rid.
I won't show anything in the background and yeah might just tease him tell him he can hear me and I'll leave the rest to his imagination and send him the odd photo. I don't think he'd have people there because he stands there totally starkers and shows me everything but he knows I'm nervous about it and doesn't push me he just says he wishes I would show him a bit of boob but if I don't want to that's fine but I kinda want to show him something so maybe as you said odd boob photo and let him hear me if he says anything which I'm sure he won't I'll just say well it's hard to hold the phone and show you everything lol just wondering about watching because he'll see my face so when I go to take boob photos he'll see. I don't think he would do anything especially as it's him showing so much but it's just a precautionary.
Thank you and I will give these a go I don't have pearls but I do have some necklaces I could use. If I take the photos beforehand can I send them whilst watching on cam? If I have it on computer and phone will I be able to maybe flash him my boobs and look at a screen without face being shown? Not sure if it works like that
So we went on cam I just did it so he couldn't see my face and yes it kept disconnecting and I found out why (it actually wasn't him) I get ba signal in my bed my phone kept disconnecting from the broadband so it took several videos and a lot of patience he didn't mind though and it was worth it.
Over an hour and 15 minutes now I'm thirsty and shaking probably dehydrated from the amount I gushed but I feel too weak to go downstairs and get a drink (first world problems) was quite fun not much face shown just the accidental blip from us both mostly hen trying to reconnect. Not actual sex but it'll do. Better than porn 😉 Unfortunately I went through all my protective folded up clothing (including a floor length dress) and now I have a slight wet patch to sleep in.
Thank you and haha I think I need something that's for sure its not bad a first but then it kinda... Doesn't stop for long I had another on and off one for ten minutes last night.
With cam guy I know I have to be careful but it's just a bit of fun.
Yeah probably I'm pretty sure I love only used two out of a big pack and I left them in the box so I went in to get them and the box was empty and there was only 3 batteries left loose in my bag. So I'm sure someone's been in and taken them
Ooh will have to look into that Dali256 I have written the odd fanfic and read some (think my favourite one was about a fictional couple from a tv show I like and it was two hot men and the Dom got his sub to wear a vibrating butt plug everywhere he went and he kept setting it off during the day and at one point a character from the show who kept butting in and was a general pain, caught the sub doubled over in orgasm but faked it to be some pain he was in whilst the Dom just slowly sipped his coffee with a grin as the sub came hard in his pants with the other guy/ex watching... Was so hot! Lol)
Read most of the first 50 shades book but personally found most of it boring because the fanfic I've read and written have been harder going and sexier (so I've been told about my writing) lol