Hi, not long came put of a relationship and been struggling with wanting to be intimate with someone etc, wondering if any of have had to do the same and how you managaded to deal with it, Thanks Dlover x
It's hard when you really want to snuggle with someone and there just isn't anyone available.
The best thing that i've discovered is basically to have a really indulgent masturbation and self massage sesson. Usually with a bath. Touching yourself, especially in mundane places like massaging your legs and stomach and sides, can be a really nice way of being intimate with yourself.
I will have to try that!
But it won't be the same :L
Yes and its killing me !
my cock needs to be in a womans warm hole !
If you confuse horniness and lonliness you can end up with the wrong person
gunther wrote:
If you confuse horniness and lonliness you can end up with the wrong person
Well said. External Media
I'm not saying that I'm looking for a relationship, just someone to be more friendly with
I would agree with that I dont really have any good proper friends in this country...
maybe see who out of your friends is around? obviously you probably won't get snuggles and stuff but company would be good.
you could always use any spare times to join groups and activities to make new friends, which could then lead to something more if you found someone and felt ready.
as a veteran i cure the loneliness with surounding myself with people and the horniness with vast amounts of alcohol....the bar maids know what i am about, I neverthink its a good idea until i am too drunk to do anything about it.....bit of a laugh for my wife when she comes out here too
hahaha I'm sure it is 
Concentrate on other things, s'what I do 
dlover61 wrote:
hahaha I'm sure it is
strange, women in germany, they will clearly look after my wifes interests in keeping me straight with absolutely no gain for them apart from its the right thing to do, when my wife comes here its like she is surrounded by mothers in law....a strangely nice feeling for both of us.
that is odd
hmmm loneyliness and masturbation that reminds me of somebody
oohh its me !!!
I have a suggestion, but perhaps it will shock you. Google "escorts" plus the name of your home town and then pick a partner and pay for sex. If you're in London then there are lots of agencies to choose from and with plenty of tips and advice.
red tube have a list of local people that just wont to be fuck buddys, untill your ready for a relashionship.
can i as you something is it beter to be out of the relashionship or to stick with it when you feel alone even though your in one?.
Amyb, I can tell you from experience that if you don't feel right in a relationship and you keep it going then it isnt fair on the other person if you are no longer feeling the same way bur if you can work at it then you should try but dont force it.