Title says it all really! I enjoyed an explorative, active and varied sex life with the ex, so now I find just about anything vaguely sexual to be a painful reminder of her.
All the advice tells me I need to forget about what she meant to me, so any tips on how to do that would be much appreciated. We both grew an incredible amount over the years, so it feels like she will always be a part of my sexuality.
We used to look at erotic art together and even an occasional tasteful porn movie, so even that reminds me of "the good times"! I need to redefine my good times :)