MizzSunshine69 wrote:quite agree Mizz why should colour make a difference either this part of the body should be adored no matter what colour or size
slick50 wrote:
I do find dark coloured labia's a bit off putting, I much prefer a lighter coloured labia which is easily done these days (I think!) like anal bleaching, many celebs and porn stars have it done.
Really? Perhaps you would feel differently if someone told you they didn't like the colour of your cock and asked you to put chemical bleaching agents on it... Each to their own in terms of your preferences but please be aware that statements like that can be very damaging to someone's self confidence.
Ms. dot, if it wasn't appropriate, I would have suggested that you posted a picture of yours here. I am sure you will get so many positive replies from men and women alike, that you will get horny every time you think about what you have down there! If you wish, send it to those members who have emails on their profiles...
I've said it elsewhere: that's the beauty of human variety, we are all different, unique, and we like different things too, including labias, so if a man is put off by the way your labia looks like, he is a prick! ditch him and find someone who will appreciate you for who you are with all your traits, looks, etc
Lovehoney - Hella wrote:
I don't have any inner labia at all.
I will not believe till I see it! Where is the proof?
Lovehoney - Hella wrote:
Does my cervix look big in this? ;)
I don't have any inner labia at all. We're all different and there's no right or wrong way for lady gardens to look. Some grow fruitfully while others sprout nada. The larger the labia, the better your clitoral stimulation tends to be during penetration, so be glad for their practicality and don't be afraid of what others might think, you'll always be your own worst critic. x
I did not know that!
MizzSunshine69 wrote:
slick50 wrote:
I do find dark coloured labia's a bit off putting, I much prefer a lighter coloured labia which is easily done these days (I think!) like anal bleaching, many celebs and porn stars have it done.
Really? Perhaps you would feel differently if someone told you they didn't like the colour of your cock and asked you to put chemical bleaching agents on it... Each to their own in terms of your preferences but please be aware that statements like that can be very damaging to someone's self confidence.
If someone told me they didn't like the colour of my cock I would not be offended at all....we all have our preferences.....like we do with dark and white chocolate!!! I have a 6 inch cock and many women say thats too small and some women prefer it! I mentioned my likes and dislikes to dotdashdot as a way of being totally honest about her labia, if she was my partner I love it big as much as a smaller labia, in fact a big labia must feel really good sliding across the tip of the ol wedding tackle! If it was dark coloured I could live with it, but I do like the look of lighter coloured labias. I know nothing about the risks of bleaching body parts, all I know is loads of people have it done so I assumed it was easy and safe, if its not then I too would advise not to have it done.
slick50 wrote:
all I know is loads of people have it done so I assumed it was easy and safe, if its not then I too would advise not to have it done.
That would be making the assumption that A. people always know the risks, and B. people care about the risks. When it comes to the pursuit of 'improving' themselves, alot of people can tend to be both ignorant, and carefree.
Omg I really didn't expect this much feedback. Aw guys, thank you so so much for all being so lovely. I've not really spoken much about this before but I've been self concious about it for a very long time. I told my ex that I didn't like it and as much as he tried to reassure me that he loved it I just didn't entirely believe him. But now to be told that lots of guys don't mind it and in fact really like it does sort of confirm to me that he was being truthful!
It just seems to be such a tabboo subject amongst women, no one wants to discuss what theirs looks like for fear of sounding like a freak so as a result we just assume that everyone has a beautiful vagina but themselves!
I know I do just have to relax about it. Ultimately I'm not going to resort to something drastic like surgery, I wouldn't ever change it for fear of it not working so well!
I do wish it was different.... I have to be careful what underwear/bikinis I choose because sometimes I can get a little bit of a bulge down there which looks really wrong to me! I'd hate for anybody but my partner see my in my underwear let alone naked which is a shame really because I have a nice body, I shouldn't hide it away!
Dirty Red Angel wrote:
Perhaps dotdashdot, one of the reasons you're so conscious is because you see so many in the course of your profession - it makes you more aware? Whereas I've only actually even seen mine in the flesh!!!
Nope, been self concious about mine before I started this profession, before I started watching porn, before I'd really seen any other vaginas. I've never thought that it looked right, even when I had nothing to compare it to! I see lots of shapes and sizes at work, some of them are kind of similar to mine (though no two are the same) and it does make me feel a little better. I guess I know I'm completely normal but that doesn't make me like it any more!
Jo wrote:
Ms. dot, if it wasn't appropriate, I would have suggested that you posted a picture of yours here. I am sure you will get so many positive replies from men and women alike, that you will get horny every time you think about what you have down there! If you wish, send it to those members who have emails on their profiles...
I've said it elsewhere: that's the beauty of human variety, we are all different, unique, and we like different things too, including labias, so if a man is put off by the way your labia looks like, he is a prick! ditch him and find someone who will appreciate you for who you are with all your traits, looks, etc
Haha think I'm still a little too shy for that! But thanks for the kind words :)
Lovehoney - Hella wrote:
Does my cervix look big in this? ;)
I don't have any inner labia at all. We're all different and there's no right or wrong way for lady gardens to look. Some grow fruitfully while others sprout nada. The larger the labia, the better your clitoral stimulation tends to be during penetration, so be glad for their practicality and don't be afraid of what others might think, you'll always be your own worst critic. x
Wow, maybe I'm one of the lucky ones then! Thanks! xx
I don't like mine either and I find it quite wierd that men seem to love them. But my OH definately doesn't seem to mind so I just try not to think about it too much as it can make me feel awkward and not at all sexy if I obsess too much. I did find looking at the Fleshlights for my OH helped quite a lot as the models used have a wide range, and they all seem to be very popular!
Personally I find 'larger' Labia beautiful, more to lick, kiss and suck during oral sex....
Also seems that just as straight people are attracted to the opposite sex and not their own, they are more likely to prefer the genitalia of the oppisite sex regardless, whilst being more critical of their own. (Haven't checked the preferences of the people who've posted on here, but would be interesting to hear what gay/bi people think of their own/other peoples)
I think it is really sexy when the 'inner lips' pout through. And let me assure you, men like you whatever way you look - it's the masterpice of the female anatomy! xx
Oooh just found this tread! I have large inner labia too and used to hate the way it looked when I was younger, and seriously considered labiaplasty!!!
But theyre super sensitive, and having a guy suck and play with them during oral is just WOW, so Ive grown to love (well...respect and tolerate)them!
Hope youre a bit more body confident DDD xxx
DONT WORRY!!!!
not liking vaginas because of one thing or another is a MAJOR GIRL THING
ive got a friend whos inner lips are really really out and her boyfriend does not care at all, he loves it
vaginas are all ugly hahaha, mines tucked in and i still complain that when i open my legs its fleshy hahaha, it honestly is a girl thing, be happy :D!!!
plus most women have larger inner than outer, hardly any porn i watch they have a tucked in vagina which started to make me feel like a child and i want a vagina like yours! seems more sexual
I think men are programmed to like lady bits
You're not the only one who hates your lady bits. :/ I have really large labia minora but really small labia majora, so that the entirety of my inner labia are visible and my labia majora just sit tucked in at the sides. :( There's no need, in my case, to pull back the labia majora to expose anything. D: I think it looks really ugly and wrinkly, and it's also totally embarrassing because they cause a bit of a bulge in my underwear. >.<
Hi, all you girls with major labia hate "thing", like the boy writers here I am fan, it's a mark of your sexuality, a bit like "large shoulder blades". I prefer a shaved mound which does two things it shows you off, maybe makes it more prominent, and makes access easier for oral. when your sexual partner is "flying blind". What can be felt helps to get the tongue home. Please, please, please don't feel embarassed or self concience about your labia its a lovely access much appreciated!!!
Horny Cock_A_Too
i love labias small or large
its a nice part i like to seit swollen or not yummy girls
I never really cared for mine before i didnt love it, and I diddn't hate it either, it was just there- and at that point completely non functioning; but I read vagina monologues in my teens (under recomendation of the Best English Teacher in the World) and it changed the way I see myself and my Vulva. In fact it had as much to sculpt me as a woman, as any the influence of my Mother and Nona.
One of the characters Bob, well I wont spoil it for you, but I love Bob. Go treat yourself.
Also for those of you with little, but those in the pornos to compare with check out 'Embaressing Bodies' Vulva Gallerry, we really do come in so many shapes and sizes and we really are all beautiful.
Hugs and Kisses
Ax