This is something we’re both starting to do more of. I find it very exciting to masturbate in front of the OH, and she often joins in, fondling my balls or licking or biting my nipples. And I love to see her playing with herself, especially with a toy.
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mmm thats sexy…
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Wife and I have not. But I would only attempt it with a silicone ring attached as with it I cane easy go for 30 minutes. It would be a great show her her and I would only do it if she reciprocated.
I would love to do this but she not up for it. Iv wanked next to her after sex when she has cum and rolled over to sleep. Would love to watch her play with herself but she doesn’t do it
We take charge of our own pleasure when we are having sex, in one way or another.
If I do this, it’s usually after my wife has had at least one orgasm so it’s at the end of a session.
Otherwise, if it’s just me I will usually be touching her, kissing probably and rubbing myself against her thigh or bum.
The way you described your experience doesn’t sound particularly sexy to me - but we are all different and enjoy different things.
I don’t mean to be negative.
Personally I never watch porn with my wife.
She is the hottest thing to me and I like sex to be something that really connects us. On a spiritual level, as well as physical. Even with all the awkwardness, clumsiness and giggles that go with it.
Maybe try it again but make her the focus? and don’t try and rush to an orgasm, rub up to her and make her feel like she is everything you need.
You might find that she gets hotter under the collar and the experience takes a different turn.
We have had some amazing experiences like this and she has joined in and done things that have really turned me on!
We all have different ways though. And we are older now, so have a different pace.
Sex is better for us than ever though, and I think it’s from slowing down and placing each partner as the center of our universe.
Enjoy more fun times together!
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I can imagine how awesome this would be sitting on the sofa with your partner…watching some football on the tv. She strips starts playing with herself opposite you. I’d have not choice but to literally stop and get my cock out!!!
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I have done this once, many years ago. As I recall it was lying in bed with my gf one Sunday morning. I don’t remember how it came about or if we talked about me doing it just beforehand. Basically I had a wank, while she lay beside me and watched and it felt very natural and comfortable for me. There was never a repeat of it, as personally I prefer the girl to look after that kind of thing if she’s available.
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Masturbating in front of your partner is such a different beast to just having sex with them. You’re still enjoying yourself of course, but being totally exposed in such an intimate act can be daunting, especially if you’re doing it until you orgasm.
I can do it for Sexterminatrix when she tells me to use my fucking machine, but if I just use my hand/s it can take foreverbecause of the in-built societal shame factor in my head. 
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I have done this a few times when requested by Mrs W… I find it a big turn-on, looking into her eyes or watching her touching her clit and nipples while I am performing… it always ends in the same way, her wanting to finish me off either with hand or mouth…
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Watching your partner masturbating, no hiding everything exposed - can only imagine it’s a hugely rewarding and incredibly intimate intense experience.
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It was the most weirdest experience ive had. Great when got past the whole getting it out bit. Ive got lost in my head twice doing it, whilst peeking at her watching of course. Both times she hasnt said much but theres definitely no issues she assures me. Its different to being in bed or doing it together. This is like “oh by the way, im horney so im gonna get mt stiffy out and rub it in front of you until i spurt on myself… Ya dont mind do you !!” Im getting used to it tho…
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Wife and I do this regularly when it’s that time of the month, I look forward to it and we usually try and cum together, it’s so exciting watching her.
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Totally understand - she’s on the phone to her mum and you get your cock out and have a play - completely normal 
OMG thats just sent a shiver down my spine 
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Mrs. Val and I had a session last night that ended up with my jerking off on her tits. To be fair, previously I would play with myself but she took me over the line as I would hand over the reigns. Last night after some deep PIV, she applied more lube to me while I was on my back and she half leaned over me with her tits close to my cock. She fingered my ass while I jerked off onto her chest and she LOVED it!
She mopped up the fairly extensive load that went all over both of us, and then was super ready for me to take her over the edge. She was so wet when I started back on her to take her there…I do think she really enjoyed watching it.
Was a great session. She barely lets me cum inside her anymore so I am thinking she has a bit of a fetish over me cumming and her watching it happen. I guess I will keep taking the pills to sweeten the load if she likes it that much!
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Sitting on the sofas drinking tea again… Thoughts wandering to doing it. Im going to write a short story to post on another forum about my experience. If that doesnt push me to do it then nothing will…
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