We usually do something sexual on a Saturday morning but OH has been ill all week so i knew nothing was going to happen. We were sitting on separate sofas, she was playing a game on her ipad and i was watching some porn feeling really randy. I told her that i wanted to bang one out in front of her and she was pretty positive about it. Being ill i didnt want her to feel like she had to join in so thats why i told her. Problem was, after saying it, all the feelings went and it took about half hour of jerk voyeur porn to get back in the mood. Then, it happened. I started by fiddling, then after a few minutes i pulled my boxers down and whilst watching favourite porn clips i made myself cum in about 45 seconds. I didnt look at her but i know she was watching whilst playing her game. She simply said “that was quick babe”. As with most blokes, when done, all feelings disappear and attention goes back to fixing the leaking bathroom tap. I sat there with him still pointing north and in a messy state feeling really embarrassed. It wasnt like getting caught and stopping, this was planned and seen through to the end. I felt really quite weird for about an hour… The feeling passed and now i feel i could do it again quite easily with or without her help. Never done that before but can highly recommend it on a kinky level. Anyone else done this ???
We do this often. Either of us suggest it. Sometimes it’s just easier than full on sex and more relaxed. but you are still involved as you watch each other.
We’ve done it in the bedroom, in the lounge and a couple of times outside in the garden on a hot evening after a few drinks.
Sometimes we just use our fingers but when we are really up for it the toys come out. Now those are the hottest sessions. 
Just go for it, hopefully you oh can join in next time and you watch each other rather than porn
Is it wrong that i enjoyed the fact that she wasnt doing anything ??? Maybe next time she will do it too but she wasnt feeling well at the time…
Not at all
I often masturbate with my wife watching me
The best thing is when she masturbates in front of me, for me there is no better turn on than watch her pleasure herself
Would you OH masturbate in front of you?
I’d love my other half to do this but he’s usually a private person
I’m a Dom in the bedroom and get my husband to wank in front of me and I just love it… it’s all power but he loves shooting his load over my knickers
omg… your replies are amazing… yes she would do it in front of me… ive caught her doing it and got straight into it… i just felt really embarrassed doing it… just need to do it more so it becomes normal… she turns me on so much and i just wanna do everything with her… thank you everyone… this forum thing is proper sorting me out. you are all so honest and so helpful !!!
Give him a bit of coaching, let him know how much you’d love it and he might help you out
He needs to let go of inhibitions and you are the only one that can help… Im really free but i struggled to blatantly wank in front of OH. Everything is always difficult to start with… My OH pegged me with a strap on and it was so weird we havent done it since… Think it was a poo factor. But hey ho, the option is there for the future. Ya just need to talk… No matter how hard it is or how difficult. Life is for living and if you dont try stuff youll never know what you can achieve… edited by mod … never stopped trying and defo never stopped banging one out. Good luck… and dont stop trying !!!
You might want to remove that reference to what you were doing before you were 18! Life begins at 18 on LoveHoney…
Have done it quite a bit, mostly after sex when we both want another orgasm or if we don’t have time for sex. Never just one of us, though that could be quite fun if it was for purposeful denial.
One of our favourite things. She gets very turned on watching me masturbating out of her reach​
Yes have done this hundreds of times.
Very arousing masturbating together, get to learn what each other likes too. I love to wear my nice g strings and play with myself while sitting on sofa with her. Or anywhere lol.
Yeah we do this but its usually in bed if im not feeling it. He likes to be near me and have a hand on my bum or boobs. Sometimes he will ask to cum on me and sometimes he wont. Sometimes i join in and we try to finish together and sometimes it leads to sex.
Congrats on your first watched wank experience! 
Great to hear it was a positive outcome and that you’d feel good doing it again… maybe your wife when better might join in or return the experience and play in front of you!
My hubby loves me playing with in front of him, he finds it such a turn on. There’s so many ways you can do it as well, my personal favourite was recently we were making out in bed, decided to put some porn on and as he’s sat up I’ve cuddled up in front of him and started masturbating while watching porn. Almost felt dirty and sensual the same time. I also love being tied up while he’s playing with himself, the feeling of wanting him and watching how turned on he is and I just can’t do anything
Thanks for that one. I really want to tie her up. Then im gonna wank and cum on her… After that im gonna use my tongue and all her toys on her to say thankyou. Gonna use the cum as lube… god im horny… gotta go…
If it works for you both, go for it. We often incorporate it into D/S play