I was thinking about buying my OH her first dildo/vibrator for her birthday, any recomendations for somewhere to start? If anyone knows a similar thread could you post the link on here thanks!
A while ago I started with a small slim anal vibe, then a realistic penis vibrator and now I have tried a vibrating love egg for the first time and I have to say it is amazing! So, I would go with vibrating eggs/bullets! (although I was probably the biggest sceptic of these and thought size matters - well it does - the smaller - the better, lol).
Another thing I have yet to try but have heard good stuff about - glass dildos! They come in different shapes and sizes - you could either pick a smaller one or an average one, since it is going to be a first! ;)
If you want to start with something innofensive and something as part of a birthday present i'd go for a finger vibe (similar to this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16031) or an egg (http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16741) as menyanthe suggested.
See if you can bring the subject up and see if she's ever wanted to try a dong before considering going down that route!
Just.. don't make it the main present things won't go down well!
This blog post is useful:
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/blog/2011/03/06/ask-julie-06-march-2011/
I'd start with a non threatening clitoral toy just to get a feel for it all. The basic range is an excellent place to start and it's great value!
Something like this for couples is a great introductory pack: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=15585
For a personal dildo or vibrator I's suggest these best selling ones for a first time toy:-
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17063 Powerful Pocket Vibrator
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=319 Lady Lustfinger Mini Vibe
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=15335 Jessica Rabbit Slimline Vibe
Good luck choosing!
Hey everone thanks for the info! We bought the Jessica Rabbit Slimline she loves it!