Is it something you just don't enjoy/No time/No space??
I just don't really enjoy it. As amazing as orgasms are it's the intimacy I crave. After masturbation I get an overwhelming sense of loneliness. It's something I just can't get over.
I can relate to that feeling...but it's all I have 😞
I'm 46 - didn't start to masturbate with toys till 27 and can't ever orgasm using fingers. I always found the pressure would get too much and I would stop.
From 40's on I got more used to masturbating and had first proper orgasm through masturbation using rabbit ( was shocked when squirted for first time).
Frequency once to 3 times a day for months then maybe couple times over a 2 month time span and then start again - all depends on how I feel !
I'm 28 and been doing it at least 15 years now, maybe not as quite so often to start, but after a few years it became a daily activity. I'm a morning person so usually masturbate in the shower first thing or later in the day if I get some alone time to use my vibrator.
Definitely more as I've got older. Around 25 times a day at the moment.....I've always had a ludicrously high sex drive lol xx
Terri JJ, When do you find the time?
I am now 58, but I am a life long advocate of the art. In my younger days I did it as and when, maybe 3/4 times a week but at the moment (being unemployed) it is more like 8/10 times a week.
32, and virtually never...once every 3 months maybe? To be fair I have no time and zero interest whatsoever these days. I still do have sex about 3 times a week. When I do it, its a serious disappointment and over in about 20 seconds. Boring!
Definitely more as I've got older. Around 25 times a day at the moment.....I've always had a ludicrously high sex drive lol xx
Terri JJ, When do you find the time?
I'm very quick when I want to be 😉 ....on the other hand if I've got a spare hour or so.....it's great to have a longer session xx
Cherrybomb85 wrote:
32, and virtually never...once every 3 months maybe? To be fair I have no time and zero interest whatsoever these days. I still do have sex about 3 times a week. When I do it, its a serious disappointment and over in about 20 seconds. Boring!
Terry JJ, I salute your commitment to the art form, you are a Godess x
Wow 25 times a day! I would be walking like a cowboy If that was me but good on ya! Mines once a week at the mo but my partner keeps me satisfied every other day, sometimes we go a few days without just teasing eachother through the week and that in itself is euphoric.
I am 32 and I masturbate daily at the moment. I find that when life gets tough with pressures that this is the only form of pleasure or form of release I have.
My wife is 36 and has a high sex drive but still only masturbates probably once a week. I'd prefer it if she did it more and told me as it's a massive turn on.
I used to masturbate most days in my 20's but since having two children finding the time (and sometimes energy) means this dropped to maybe once a week at the most. My youngest however has now started school so I have more alone time during the day and over the last few weeks the toy box has been rummaged through at least once a day and I'm loving using toys that haven't been out to play for a while!