like masturbating better than sex?

anon8973863 · March 21, 2010, 8:46am

Hi all - i know its taboo to say it..

But I got delivery of lovely titan men butt plug and tenga from LH this week..

had one of teh best nights of my lifeon friday "test driving" with some choice porn..

may be im not doing it right.. but with all these gorgeous toys and porn around do you think wanking is now better than sex? i find it hard to disagree after Friday :)

SweetSubmission · March 21, 2010, 9:18am

Hello Tenga Fan!

I include my toys and some porn when I'm with a partner if I feel like it! They're not just for when I'm on my own. I like to give pleasure as much as I enjoy receiving it, and I don't think any of my dildos are as appreciative of being deepthroated as my man is. Combine that with the fact that no vibrator, however nifty, can hold your body tightly and whisper in your ear as you come... I definitely like sex better!

That said, I love my solo play too and wouldn't want to go without it - thank goodness there's no need to choose!

Welcome to the Orgasm Army.

SS xx

anon8973863 · March 21, 2010, 9:22am

Thanks Sweet submission. fair point. Gf is a little uptight bought these things unfortunately. definitely would flip if she saw my butt plug. which frankly takes my breath away.

i do like to use sex lines when I wank too. sad but true. Some of teh girls are really good at what they do :)

Alicia_D_amore · March 21, 2010, 10:56am

Got to agree with SS here, I prefer sex with a partner. We also incorporate toys and I'm a giver rather than a receiver so I need that appreciation from sex. I also don't really enjoy coming so sex makes it more about the intimacy and the act rather than the orgasm.

I could (and do, most of the time) go without masturbation all together as long as I have my partner.

Interesting question!

Ax

Cara_Sutra · March 21, 2010, 11:00am

I find sex and masturbation to be two very different experiences. During sex it's about our mutual pleasure and I find Im generally thinking of if they are enjoying it, more than focussing on my own pleasure. During masturbation I'm focussed on the sensations plus any fantasies. During sex with a partner I'm thinking about them, sometimes so much so that I hold off my own climax until I am sure they are satisfied.

So I wouldn't say one is better than the other, for me. Just that they are both different and highly enjoyable in their own ways

PS Welcome to the forums xxxx

sexycornishcouple · March 21, 2010, 11:15am

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Cara_Sutra · March 21, 2010, 11:52am

sexycornishcouple wrote:

yea sex and masturbation are 2 different things being a couple we both agree its good to have time to pleasure are selves as well as each other. we deffantly agrre with mistress Cara

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Although I was hoping for a heated debate to end with me spanking someone, tbh External Media LOL

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WandA · March 21, 2010, 12:11pm

Different, much less pressure with a solo play but much more intense with a partner!

Hello and welcome!

sexycornishcouple · March 21, 2010, 12:13pm

Maybe another day Mistress Cara dont think her lil bottom could take any more spanking today

anon8973863 · March 21, 2010, 12:44pm