Hi guys n gals,
Please bare with me as this might turn into a longish post but I don't feel comfortable discussing this with friends or family!
Last year as part of the male toy summer bundle I got the Lovehoney Pleasure Probe, which I was pleased with as I'd been very curious about orgasms with the P-Spot.
I found the toy to be great at first but it never gave me what others have described and I felt it wasn't quite long enough.
With the offer of 3 bottles of lube for £10 I decided to buy a longer and slightly wider toy to experiment with which is the Flexcite 10 Function Silicone Vibrating Prostate Massager.
It arrived today and as I'm sure you can guess I wanted to try it asap. So earlier I tried it and found it a bit awkward and a little big and had to abandon it as I just couldn't relax and it was a little painful.
Now my issue is, I know finding what works for the P-Spot to take time and practise, have a shower before hand to relax yourself but I feel that I can't currently relax. I have a long condition of suffering with anxiety and depression which I'm currently suffering with at the moment. I'm on medication which is Sertraline. These have caused sexual distinction for me, which means I cannot ejaculate so I can't relax and relieve stress in my 'normal' way. I have managed it once in almost 3 weeks but this is from 1-2 hours every night trying to climax. Toys don't seem to help and I figure I won't be able to practise finding my P-Spot in my current condition as I worry every time if I'll actually get to climax or not.
Can anyone suggest anything? I have discussed it with my dr but she didn't seem too forthcoming and said all anti depressants can have that effect