Looking for the complete package...

I don't mean to start this thread off on a downer, but my husband died about six months ago. The problem is that I still have the same high sex drive that I've always had but emotionally, I'm not ready to be with another person. I've always been into sex toys, but they've been sort of an addition rather than the main focus of my sex life. Now I'm looking for some toys that can provide the full package, so to speak...

I like to use a clit stim and dildo combination. I've got a few of both, but now need more variety!

For the clit, I'm thinking that I should switch to a rechargeable or plug-in clit stimulator for reliability and power - I was considering either the Lelo Siri or the JimmyJane Form 2 but I'm very open to suggestions. I need some strong vibes! I usually use the LoveHoney Poweful Pocket Vibrator and don't find it too strong except for some times when the batteries are really fresh. The thing I don't like is how the vibrations vary depending on the battery charge - I'd like something a bit more consistent. I like a focussed vibration, so I wasn't sure if the Form 2 (or something like the Hitachi wand, for example) would give me what I need.

For the dildos, I'd like to try some variety. I've never tried a glass dildo before and I'm really, really turned on by the idea of the Toy Joy Glass Worxx Orglassm (http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16883) because I love the combination of the curve and the texture - smooth dildos don't do it for me. I'm just afraid it might be a little too big. I have a jelly dong that's a little shorter but a little wider and I can manage it if I'm really wet. All the reviews suggest that glass is an easier ride, so to speak, so I'm hoping it will be okay. What do you guys think?

Thanks for helping! This is my first post here, even though I've been a LoveHoney customer for awhile, and I really appreciate your help!!

I'm sorry for your loss. I hope things are as best as they can be for you at this time.

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G-Ki and lube (not silicone)!

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17284

It's unique, it folds over to stimulate the clit while feeling great as a penetration toy too. It has dual motors so both ends vibe, inside and out and it's rechargeable, with a funky little magnetic charger too! It folds out so makes a great toy to use either end separately or both!

Glass is much fun too, so i would recommend, I just think the G-Ki fits so many things you mention. Don't forget to use a voucher code if you get one and have one spare for a tenner off!

I hope we see you around the forums, this is the main forum too by the way:

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/orgasm-army/

Thanks for that! Definitely happy for all recommendations, and I'm certainly intrigued by the G-Ki... sounds great!!

Hi and welcome to the forums. Sorry about your loss. *hugs*

I agree with WandA's suggestion. As for glass dildos I think these are very good starting ones:

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=11683 (wavy)

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=4264 (dotty)

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14732 (2 in one- dotty and wavy, double headed)

I hope LH can help satisfy some of your needs and desires.

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