Im forever conning my OH into believing the most outragous and crazy things, most of the time she's far too gullable for her own good.....or so i thought....
we were laid in bed having out usual pre bed laugh and chat and We got onto the topic of anal love. Thinking it was nailed on i would win I made a bet with her that the next time either one of us falls for believing something is true when it isnt they get to anally love the other person.
First convo of the day still half asleep i fell for it hook line and sinker so now for the past two days shes been finding items that she can 'love' me with. needless to say im not feeling loved too much and more harrassed......
firstly.... any tips of where to begin for us both?
secondly.... its a scary thought when your not the giver! Now i see why the uneagerness towards anal love and kinda understand.
Hi Nat&Ry, the best advice I can give is to take things slowly and stop immediately if anything hurts or is uncomfortable. Make sure you also use a good quality anal lube and just take your time and build up slowly. It is always best to start with a finger - my Husband uses a glove when he does this so that afterwards you just turn it inside out and you have no worries about mess etc. We use these:-
Ry (im guessing, you could be Nathan) is it something you really don't want to do or are you nervous? If its something you really don't like be honest, offer to make it up with massages, a meal out, housework, whatever and I'm sure she'll understand (though maybe mock you for a whole ;) ) If you're nervous and never experimented in that area, as long as there's tryst she won't hurt you by pushing past your comfort then you should be fine. Take it slow, lots of lube....you might like it or might decidd its not for you, but in a trusting relationship its not a problem to try stuff.
If nothing else it nay give you an understanding of how it feels so if you ask for it in future you can approach it with consideration and due caution
Try it yourself first with a finger and some lube, and if comfortable try a small plug or dildo. The relaxing lubes here are also good like pjur back door, but believe me if you can be comfortable with it, it really is enjoyable and quite a work out for her. The orgasm from her wanking you at the same time as screwing you with a strapon is mind blowing!