Okay, so I am here looking for some advice, stories of previous experiences ect.
I'm happily married to the love of my life, we've been together for the last 7years and since we were 19 and married for 5 of those years. We're so fortunate to of found one another and have a very happy loving relationship. Two children, careers and a house later life has gotten on top of us. What used to be a very healthy sex life had dwindled into a reoccuring argument of who hasn't made enough effort to try it on with the other. It's not that we aren't interested we're just exhausted and sex isn't high on the priority list although, both very very effectionate to another another every day with kissing, cuddling, holding hands ect.
Now- after an argument around two months ago, I came home from work early to find my husband trying to use my rabbit in the shower. I flipped, told him he must be gay (bad move, I know) and stomed out. Low and behold, he was only doing what I had said earlier that week by wanting to experiement and mentioned he was never showing a softer more vulnerable side.
Anyway, he couldn't use the rabbit, he was too scared and it was too big to go anywhere so nothing amounted to that. I have since made a Lovehoney account to spice up the marriage in the bedroom. We have been having lots of fun with all sorts of toys and everything is back on track.
I've read loads about men exploring anal with their girlfriends/wives but now I am intigured. I know I shouldn't but as much as I want to explore this with my husband I just automatically think it's gay, he will love it and leave me for a man. Trust me, I know how ridiculous this sounds so I don't need to be told, more just looking for everyones experiences and advice on this subject please. We do anal alot, but him inside me, never the other way around so exploring this seems okay but reasurance is needed :-)