Ladies, do you prefer men to be loud or quiet during sex - whether IRL or in porn?
Don’t have to be loud but I do prefer some kind of vocal feedback every now and again.
Me too, I like vocal feedback. We're quite talkative as well as noisy. I've found I can dirty talk him into staying hard if he's starting to soften, which is handy. He like making me make noise too, so overall, we're moderately noisy, but not neighbour disturbingly noisy (well, most of the time anyway)
Would love some noise from the OH. He's virtually silent which I hate. I’ve told him that because he’s so quiet I’ve no idea whether he’s enjoying himself or not but it also makes me quite self conscious at times because I can be loud!
My hubby is same. Deffo is annoying. Would love him to make some noises but the only noises he makes us the heavy breathing when he cums.Mrs Meyer wrote:
Would love some noise from the OH. He's virtually silent which I hate. I’ve told him that because he’s so quiet I’ve no idea whether he’s enjoying himself or not but it also makes me quite self conscious at times because I can be loud!
I like it when men give a groan or moan during sex, it's a big turn on for me, and it's nice to know that he's enjoying himself. My OH is rather quiet too unfortunately.
From the male side, I love a woman who is noisy. My current OH is reasonably noisy throughout but very noisy when she orgasms. I find it such a turn on.
We are both a bit noisy, especially at the point of orgasm.
We are both a bit noisy, especially at the point of orgasm.
Dirty talk does nothing for me during the act; but can be hot leading up to it.
Moaning and panting is a massive turn on during though.
I like to know we're both putting in the effort/did a good job.
My boyfriend is quiet most of the time during the event but is quite noisy when he cums. If either of us have had a few drinks we tend to be louder for some reason.
My hubby is quiet which for me is a bit of a letdown as a bit of moaning, whispering and groaning turns me on a lot. Before we got married, we used to be a bit more "vocal" and I loved that, but over the years he turned into such a quiet guy. I don't like swearing though, but love those sounds that comes from within, so hot.
Oh, yeah - the groans and moans.
Completely different to the normal day-to-day moans and groans!
The former I love to hear, great feedback that turns me on.
The latter, not so much. A complete turn-off. Good incentive to go and do the washing up, though.
But yes, in bed I do like a bit of noise in the form of the odd groan. Not so much the non-stop commentary I had with an ex, though. He sounded like a bad seventies porno crossed with the guy who used to read the footie results. Thankfully, we never actually even got round to having sex (he was so bad I legged it halfway through our first time, saying me period had started!).
If you get this far and wonder what on earth I'm on about, I just had a very small glass of cherry brandy and it only happens once or twice a year.
Don't have me loud. Just moan
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I like men to dirty talk but if start screaming like a a girl it’s off putting and moaning from a man dont mind a bit it’s fine if your having good sex can’t help it but if am with a woman I don’t mind them being loud lol
I find silence during sex can be the most awkward thing, I tend to let out a lot of moans and the occasional “F*CK” which goes down well with my partner. Usually I can’t help the words that come out of my mouth when I’m in the moment
Noises of pleasure are good, plus the occasional verbal instruction or indication of pleasure. If there are more than two of you involved the odd sexy comment from someone else is very erotic too.
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Sober now, sorry.
However, I can say that this guy had quite a rep with us local girls - I don't think he ever actually got laid. I recall one girl mentioning his, erm, cock-up with a condom (apparently his dad had given him a re-useable one that he had used - his dad, that is).
I'm so glad I refused the date he'd asked me on via a Valentine card (he wanted to take me to a dinner dance with his parents for a first date), as I'd never be able to get the image of his dad presenting him with a used re-useable condom out of my head!
I also recall one girl moaning (and not with pleasure!) about her leaving halfway through after he kept jabbing her anus, insisting that it was the "right hole" (this was waay before anal was ever heard about around here). Another traumatised victim!
He's still single - quite a catch with his own home and a flash car, but I can see why he remains so if he hasn't upped his game. He still tries at the local pub, though. He's moved on to younger women according to a friend of my niece.
He used to be such a nice guy, just absolutely clueless. I wish some of his mates would set him on the path to Lovehoney. He might learn something.
My girlfriend loves me to be vocal, and vise versa!