We can both be noisy or quiet but when noisy my orgasm - and my OH - are invariably better. Letting go in every respects heightens the results. Plus OH says my long moans with ejaculation are a turn on for her too
Love vocal feedback if it's genuine, not into making noise for the sake of it
I’m still a virgin in terms of sex with a partner (I’ve used sex toys though) and when I’ve watched porn moaning has turned me on, I prefer the kind of porn videos where you can hear the people in it moaning to ones with music dubbed over it so I’d assume when I do get to having sex with someone I’d prefer a bit of vocalisation.
I like it when my man gives a moan or groan of pleasure at least I know I am doing something nice, don’t like being quite myself when I am in the moment 🤪
Go with the flow.
If the mood calls for a moan then let it out. If on the other hand the feelings are intense and you want to be quiet, then bite your lip.
From the first and onky time we've done anything, both myself and the bf are each at opposite ends of the noise spectrum. Him being next to silent and me, well very much not.
Now I know he likes to hear me. But I'd like some sound back. Either a moan or a bit of encouragement wouldn't go unwanted. Especially the encouragement, I get really easily spooked by anything sexual so I need all the supporting words I can get.
My partner is very loud, which would be so hot if I didn't live in a student house with very thin walls...
Often find myself clamping my hand down on his mouth, trying to muffle the moans. Love the noise, the thrill, but my housemates would rip into me for weeks if they ever heard me at it. We all do it, all of the time, just incredibly quietly (or loudly when everyone else is out).
Speaking purely hypothetically as i've not actually gotten that far yet, i think i'd prefer the quieter side of things. Not silent, that would be awkward and make me self conscious, but from what small ammount of porn i'e seen before i decided its not for me, the screaming/moaning just seemed faked. I'm not noisy myself with masturbation, but i imagine that would be different with a real person as im deliberately quiet because my dadd is usually home.
Honestly i think i'd like taling during sex, not a hows your day been kind of chat, but, compliments and such as things go along, some smiling, maybe a little giggling, lots of kissing and cuddling and a few "i love you"'s.
I groan with pleasure just loud enough for my other half to hear me, I do also get a bit louder near the point of finishing.