Hi all, new here, I have a high sex drive always, have had,but the other half has lost all interest in sex, should I accept masturbation and get some toys, or is there another option. Other than the sex we are pretty happy really
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Why has your partner lost interest in sex if they’re happy with everything else?
I think a number of factors, time of life, health, stress xx
You think? Have you asked her?
Yeah, says her body doesn’t have the urges, we have spoke a lot about it x
Try stimulating her brain. Our bodies need more than physical stimulation.
Other than that, if you don’t have an open relationship, then its masturbation and toys.
I defintely do all of that, I have always started with the brain. x
How old is your wife? Could it be the menopause? It killed my libido and has taken a good 18 months of tweaking my HRT and adding testosterone to get it back - it’s now better than ever
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We are both in our 40s so it could be.
Good to know there might be some hope though xx
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I’m the same but now use a dominatrix to work me when I’m horny
Good on you. no sure that would work for me
100% hope. Peri menopause can start at any age. The trick is finding a GP / nurse who is menopause trained or you pay for a private menopause specialist. There’s a FB support group which also offer 1-2-1 spots with a trained specialist - worth their weight in gold. The Davina programs are also very insightful.
I wish I’d known what I know now many years ago, please encourage your wife to seek help as her libido probably isn’t the only symptom she’s having if it is peri menopause.
Good luck
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thank you xx
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Gday, seems you have done for first and most important one and communicated about it, as the others have suggested, encourage her to find a good Clinic and get herself checked out.
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