Over the years i've tried my hardest to play with my wifes bum,she gave up in the end and she allows me to now and have been doing for a couple of years now more rimming and fingering and the odd time with my penis.She's not that keen on toys which i respect her for,the last few months she's started to play with my bum started of kissing and fingering then all of a suddon she started rimming which i really enjoy and i love bedtimes as i no whats going to happen to me.
She's started using a bullet on me and this as now progressed to one of her dildos which i find rather nice and i really enjoy.I have spoken with her and suggested maybe a strapon to try,she seem a bit shocked at first but now would love to give it a go so i've placed an order for this one http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=8569 along with some lube.
Anyone got any advice they can give me on the best way to get started,i don't want to find her trying to ram it in and go hell for leather and hurt me cause this would put us both of the idea.We are both really keen to introduce this to our sex life,my wife keeps saying she can't wait for the order to come and then we can try this so she is well up for giving this a go so any advice i can pass on would be great.