I need help to have a greater orgasms i have great clitotis ones but have trouble with vaginal ones any tips
I'd say that's not overly uncommon. My OH can only orgasm if there's some kind of clitoral stimulation, even if that's just rubbing against me during sex, but does say that sex orgasms are better as a result of both feeling good at the same time. I'd focus on enjoying the ones you have, a lot of women can't have them in any way at all!
I'm very luck in that I can orgasm quite easily viginally or clitorally. I find I have very powerful orgasms and can have more of them viginally. It's all about finding what works for you. For me it's temperature play and gspot stimulation. So really other than saying try different things in different ways and try not to force an orgasm in not being very helpful. Sorry.
I'm one of those women who hardly ever orgasm, so having any is great. It's easiest when I haven't had any sex for a long time, but that's no solution! And even then it takes me ages
Really, I'm happy getting higher and higher, and enjoying the pleasure of all the different sensations. Orgasms aren't the be all and end all. Enjoy the journey!
A good bridge from clitoral to vaginal/g-spot orgasms could be to try a 'blended' one where you stimulate both erogenous zones simultaneously. Then you can ease off the clitoris and emphasise the internal/g-spot with each attempt until you feel like you may be able to do internal alone.
A two-toy set up is probably best for this as it'll give you more control over which bits are getting what kind of attention at any given point. 🙂 Mrs Chimp is a big fan of the Mini wand coupled with the beaded glass dildo. -
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=37806
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30946
The mini wand gives quite a broad area of stimulation, and the ridges of the glass dildo rub her in just the right place. 👍🙂
I hope this gives you some ideas.