i had been think about this for a long time me and the OH watch porn together now and then to help us get in the mood or as a idea starter or background noise but is that normal something other people is it ok to watch porn with your OH or is it something you should do when you cant see or touch your OH
Think there was a fairly long post on this before but anyway, yes myself and my wife definitely watch porn together, before, during and after. She loves watching it with me (and by herself) and once we are in the throws of it she says she likes hearing it in the background and having a little peek during.
We sometimes watch porn together, OH isn't that into it though so it's usually by my request, I never watch it alone though
We do sometimes watch it together s a prelude to sex although you need to get the right porn. Otherwise it can be distractingly funny.
I don't think there is anything wrong with it. I watch it solo, and I don't mind occasionally watching it with a partner to get us in the mood. Not sure about ALL the time though...
Personally, I find it irritating how many people strive for things that are "normal". What is normal? So many people are different in their bedroom activities that it would be so hard to actually define what normal is, unless you think of it as a totally "vanilla" sex life.
So, if you want to be "normal" and have this vanilla sex life, which is probably what most of the population does, would that make you happy? Or does watching porn with your partner now and then make you happy? Just do whatever you want, it doesn't matter if you fall into an unrealistic category of normality.
Just do what makes you happy, not what makes you normal.
We used to watch porn together, however it stopped, why I can't remember - must be 10 years or so since we last watched porn, as most of ours was recorded on tapes, we still have the tapes but not the video recorder / player lol
We have been discussing this recently, I personally think it is up to you and your partner if you watch porn together or not and only you can decide together.
Is it normal? well in answer to that question is a question 'What IS normal?'
The only 'should' is that everyone involved (directly or indirectly) is happy to be and with whatever may come out of it.
If both of you enjoy it and it adds to your pleasure, why not? The problems are when it takes away from your time together or builds up unrealistic expectations.
My OH and I like watching porn together. If you both want to give it a go then great. You can always switch it off if it's not for you
Yes. As long as it's tasteful (and cannot feature women with long fingernails!).
Yes, good porn (no shaving rashes) can be a great way of getting the evening going. May be even re-enact a few bits youve watched.
Ha ha ha. Indeed. It's a real deal-breaker for us.
Sunshine,Lollipops wrote:
Sorry for going off topic but, *shudders* How can women with such long fingernails do ANYTHING, let alone scenarios like that?!
Really long false nails make me cringe ! I avoid what I call " long nail porn" but yeah, find something you both like and enjoy. It can add a bit of extra spice to sex to have it playing in the background occasionally.
thank guys it help to knwo im not the only one that like it
dont worry at all, loads of people like it! I personally dont like watching it during but like it in the background and watching during foreplay :)