Thank you for all reply LadyS some interesting reading there and how spanking feels as some of what you has said does sound familiar.
Don't have any thin ones. Favourite is a thick braided leather one. Fairly heavy and leaves wonderful marks.
Marks are always wonderful when left on ur bum after a spanking session.
I have one just like this and it's really great. It can be used by beginners right up to experienced. Anything from light taps to great whacking stings can be delivered from it and it leaves lovely hearts all over the bum cheeks. 😊❤️
Heart marks over your bum could be good fun.
Just looked and I didn't add a link (sorry)
Here it is
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=29429
That is ok I guessed it was that one you meant.
My and the Mrs have one and only used it a bit. We are new to spanking (spoke about it)
It's something we both want to try. But first attempt was not the best :-(