Hi. although I love rimming, my OH is dead against it as she says the idea or giving or receiving is degrading although she does mind pegging which is lucky for me! Anyway, I was interested if anyone had been in the same position where there partner was origional against rimming but something had since changed and now they enjoy doing it and what brought about the change.
For now I.m looking at getting some toys that she could use on me in place of rimming and saw http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=24042 and also http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=31790. Not sure which one to get so any opinions would be appreciated. Thanks
NatandTom wrote:
Have you seen the rimming butt plug? http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=34813
Hi NatandTom. I did look at it but it a lot smaller than the other plugs we have so may feel quite small. It's also quite expensive to take a gamble on.
I have the sqweel go which is the smaller version of the first link you provided......and it's not realistic at all.....dosen't feel anything like a tongue. It just feels like a buzzy vibe if I'm being honest x
OddThomas wrote:
NatandTom wrote:
Have you seen the rimming butt plug? http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=34813
Hi NatandTom. I did look at it but it a lot smaller than the other plugs we have so may feel quite small. It's also quite expensive to take a gamble on.
Don't forget there is a 1-year returns on everything, even if you try it and just don't like it! 😉
I wouldn't recommend the Sqweel 2 for rimming as its so big and bulky. I think you'd have more pleasure from something like the Sqweel Go.
Alternatively, you could try seeing if she would feel more comfortable stimulating you externally using a very well lubricated finger. Finger cots may help with this.
alone4ever wrote:
OddThomas wrote:
Hi. although I love rimming, my OH is dead against it as she says the idea or giving or receiving is degrading although she does mind pegging which is lucky for me! Anyway, I was interested if anyone had been in the same position where there partner was origional against rimming but something had since changed and now they enjoy doing it and what brought about the change.
For now I.m looking at getting some toys that she could use on me in place of rimming and saw http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=24042 and also http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=31790. Not sure which one to get so any opinions would be appreciated. Thanks
If you went and got some disposable surgical type gloves, you could see if she would give you and anal massage, or more, (Did you mean doesn't mind pegging )here in bold above.
If she doesn't like the idea, then let it go. If she doesn't mind pegging and she goes for the finger play, who knows, what the future holds. But thats up to her.
Thanks for the replies. "Doesn't mind pegging " is what I meant to write - bloody predictive text!
The pegging is good and she has even fisted my butt a number of times without complaint but is dead set against anything near her butt or rimming of mine. My butt is always clean shaved, freshly cleaned and well presented so to speak , plus we have never had any accidental messes in the past , so it is more down to the idea that she see's a butts function is purely for passing waste than also for pleasure. So much so, that she refuses to even try a small butt plug on her own. I would never force my wife to do anything she did not want to do but that doesn't mean I can't hope that she may one day change her mind and give it a go 😇
Thanks for the replies about the Sqweel - I almost ordered it a bit earlier but now glad that I waited to get some advise first. Lovehoney and this forum are absolutely fantastic !
Not sure what to suggest, but I tried and reviewed that BVibe plug a few months ago, feels nothing like being rimmed I'm afraid. Was still ok, but only ok and not worth the price (IMO).