So guess more advice than anything! Been together 19 years, married 10. We’ve done most things that normal vanilla couples do, then a few years ago i Suggested we spice it up a little, toys, anal, prostate massage etc! All with great success! So to my question; the past 6 months it’s all sort of become quite routine, same rhythm of what we do! Etc etc, just wondering what you lovely people do to mix it up or maybe ideas on how to mix it up a little! Any advice welcome
Try a little bondage, sexting, naughty notes a sensual massage, change up the order In Which you do things what toys you use maybe try some role play.
think about how you do things then alter it for example if you usually go down on her first give her a massage blindfolded don’t go down on her if that’s what you always do
Excellent! This is just the sort of thing I wanted to ask advice about. I have a 'Sexy Secretary' outfit and also wear 'black-rimmed' classy glasses, which is also a bonus lol! I would like some advice from anyone (male or female) in how to instigate this genre of role play. I am quite a curious newbie to this and prone to being a bit shy, but would love to try it!!! I have pens and notepads - but that's not nowhere near sexy enough is it?!! Lol. I guess I would like to know how others get into this role for their OH's and keep in character - so to speak. I would welcome any advice as I'm both excited and nervous about this and don't want to embarrass myself in front of the hubby! I thought about watching a few porn videos with him 2 get sum ideas, but can somebody recommended any decent ones that really depict how it's done? Also from a safe site pls - no viruses 2 go on computer!
I also have the 'Fever' Schoolgirl uniform, not sure if Lovehoney has discontinued this? I have worn it and hubby loved it, but again does anyone have any tips on how I can really get into character? I never was very good at Drama lessons in school! Lol. Thanks all, I do appreciate any help so much😊.
Whenever I run out of ideas, I browse the new submissions on fetlife and read some of other peoples experiences and nick their ideas for myself.
Thanks guys for the advice. Really helpful. We’ve spoken about it but she’s not bored! She’s happy having regular orgasms (not showing off, remember we’ve been together a long time! I know what works) and I get off on the fact she does! But I guess it’s me! I get fed up of the same old, it’s like guy said I do always go down on her, one becUs I like it but guess that’s just the routine! Time to change it up