Hi all me and my submissive have what we find funny safe words as we feel red and yellow a bit to vanilla so are words are to stop all together it appel crumble and slow down it zucchini which in the hight of her Cumming makes her cum harder and harder let me know your words
We stick with the traffic light system. I know what you mean by it seeming vanilla but for us itās something easy to remember while in sub space. Safety is paramount as we all know and I donāt want the stress of trying to remember an obscure word. Thankfully I havenāt had to use red yet though
100% safety is key thats why we use them as they are her favourite food
Good taste. I love an apple crumble
I sometimes like to use yellow as a warning to stop what they are doing and red is that I want to stop all together. If I want to use funny words itās cucumber for the warning and then itās banana for it to stop. It usually depends on who Iām with at the moment.
Love it food that all so toys
Iāve never had a safe word but quite like the thought of using āmuffinā haha
Go for it muffin to slow down and sprinkle to stop
Haha love it!!
We use Pineapple as our stop word.
We usually go for a vegetable as our stop word, cabbage or broccoli most of the time
Our safe word is meatloaf aka Iāwould do anything for love but i wont do that not that either of us have used it yet because weāre both as stubborn as each other and both wait until the other one takes pity on the other before any if us yell āMEATLOAFā LOL
Not really into the BDSM stuff, but since sex for me sometimes involves pain and striking my sensitive areasā¦ we have a āSafe gesture.ā Like a wrestling match, I can tap out by either slapping my partner 3x or the ground or some other surface. We do this because often during sex Iām unable to speak or express myself vocally.
To date, I havenāt had to use it. My husband and GF arenāt even willing to push my pain limits. Apparently Iām too cute.
I also like using unique safe words. Mine and my dominants are based off Nandoās spices so lemon and herb up to peri peri.
We talked about using the traffic light system but this reminded the of the game ānervousā where you put your hand up a girls skirt and they say red light when they want you to stop but a lot of people would say āfire engines donāt stop for red lightsā and so the traffic light system made them uncomfortable.