So i will just jump right into it and reach out for a little advice or even to just know if this is "common"
So my partner and i have been in a relationship for a little over 2 years now, i'm an incredibly lucky man and thank my lucky stars each day.
a few life situations have happened and has resorted in us seeing each other just once a week for the time being, say out of a month, we have dropped to having sex maybe 2 or 3 times...i try and initiate a lot but get knocked back, along with offering oral.
she has been feeling self concious about her weight lately (even though she looks spectacular to me) so it has stopped being her jumping my bones and more into me getting worried im doing something wrong or what have you (joys of overthinking)
but our relationship is still stong, when we get down to it lately, i dont seem to last as long as i used to even though im much more in shape...we could go at it for around an hour/hour and a half easy (without counting foreplay) but now im lucky if i can hit the 30 min mark
any tips to help get my confidence back in the bedroom?
thank you for listening/reading