My wife has started to accept that she is seriously interested in going to a sex club...all be it totally petrified. We have a well respected one within decent travelling distance. Anyone got any experience and advice?
There are several threads already on swinging and sex clubs if you search in the bar at the top.
Here is one on swinging hope it helps.
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/sex-tips-and-talk/607990-swingers/
Yup thread archives are your friend. Speak with the organisers, check out their rules and policies thoroughly and feel no pressure to do anything you wouldn't do in your local pub first time. Just being voyeur or maybe playing with each other is enough on first visit if you're nervous :) discuss everything before during and after as a couple. Most importantly, have fun!
Disclaimer: I've only been to bdsm clubs but mine was a swingers club also.