Not a car or bike ! lol. I'm a wheelchair user, and had a look around the threads for sex with people who have a disability. I was a bit sad to see that most of the threads were political rants.
So i decided to change it up a bit... Have you shagged a crip? (i can say it! i am one lol). Would you? Ive had my fair share of nooky, both in my chair and on the bed lol and some of it has been wild, orgasmic and great - others not so much hehe.
i am paralysed from the chest down, but have full sensation and a little viagra keeps everyone happy haha! I have a catheter bag (catheter pipe comes out my tummy and connects to a pee bag). I'm always concious it might be a turn off but its never stopped my partners from getting frisky.
Ive also heard some people even have a fetish for people with a disability! wow lol.
So thoughts, experiences ... lets hear it all ;)
sorry cant help really but im sure there wil be someone on the forum with help, suggestion or advice
good luck
Well let me welcome you to the forums😘
It is good for someone like yourself with a disability to remind us that we can all have a steamy sex life... Good on you!
I haven't had any relationship with anyone who is disabled, but I used to work in hospitals and I know that life doesn't stop if you have a disability. It is probably just more creative!
Hope you enjoy the forums and get some ideas/ tips/ gossip / cock ring/ testers to review.
Xx
Naughtymum
Hi, I have not had sex with anyone with a disability, but that would not put me off if the person was right for me. I don't think that a super public catheter should be a turn off for anyone, as long as it's kept clean (I'm sure it is you live with it!).
It's good to hear that you have had several partners, and that you enjoy sex. If your wheelchair bound then do you have a hoist at home? If you do it could make for a fun sex swing.
Hi and welcome :) I had a partner many years ago who couldn'd move from the waist down but still had full sensation and he also had a catheter bag. Absolutely amazing guy in bed and out !! Dont know if there was such a thing as viagra back then (we're talking around 30 years ago here) but he could keep it up for ages and I used to find, more often than not that it was me who,had a job to keep up with him.!! Whilst I'm certain that there are people out there who would find someone with disabilities a turn on and the same with the catheter bag that wasn't what attracted me to him. He was just so much fun and so caring and had a huge personality. To be honest most of the time I completely forgot about his disability, he was just such a great guy.
Terri sounds like you had fun!
Fun louise yes catheter is always clean lol fair comment tho. I dont normal do political correctness so it doesnt bother mewhen ppl say 'wheelchair bound' haha i actually have images of some kinky bdsm and rope play going on! Though ive heard other crips take offence so i suggest chair user ;)
Thanks for the other comments. Im not really looking for help or advice... Unless thats a helping hand hahaha! I just thought it'd be good to break the taboo around sex disability and 'illness'. I think most crips are healthy horny buggers or move differently which means being creative! An thats always fun ;)
Have often sat my gf's on my desk so i could go down oon them for example lol
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Lol !! I think the title of this thread should be your user name ! ;) x
Haha maybe :) but i prefer not to be defined by the chair - more fun to sound like a horny bugger ;) lol x
Shagz79 wrote:
Haha maybe :) but i prefer not to be defined by the chair - more fun to sound like a horny bugger ;) lol x
You definiely come across as that ;) x
I depend on using a wheel chair quite often. I'm not paralysed in any way, just had spinal surgery that went wrong and a few chronic health conditions, meaning I cant stand for any amount of time, or walk more than a few meters without being in agonising pain.
I still enjoy a healthy sex life, I get out to swingers clubs and I even have a submissive that I get to be very kinky with. I just can't do certain posistions. People are very understanding and accomodating of my health issues.
Although I haven't been with anyone with a physical disability. I wouldn't have a problem with it. As long as the person with the disability was my cuppa tea ;)
Its a funny thing coz there is always a moment when im chatting to a woman an i can feel they are to polite to ask stuff like "does it work?" Or "can you?" Maybe taalkiing about sex isjust different for women than it is for men?
I have never been with someone with a disability either but I did funnily enough watch a documentary last night about this subject and it was very informing, they had an amazing sex life and showed just because they was disabled that it didnt get in the way of they're sex life.
Hi and welcome to the forums :) You sound like a confident guy who knows how to enjoy himself so hope you have fun here x
It was called sex on wheels by channel 4.
Wildflower thanks xx
Ive always wondered how ppl would feel at a swingers club or munch etc about a chair user
I haven't had sex with anyone with a disability though it wouldn't put me off in anyway.
Having said that my partner has heart problems witch some people would class as a disability as it stops him from working and doing quite a lot of activities some days.